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both gave their own merit n demerit.

my husband is in merchant Navy. I stay alone n my in-laws are far. but when m alone, I have to take care of everything. difficulty arises when kids r unwell. n at that time I feel at least not husband but his or my parents should be there. also our kids in nuclear family r lacking in culture. grandparents should give culture, good manners and habits.

On the other hand, we too had lot of fights between men my mother in law. not because of privacy. In laws have more expectations from us. daughter in law should be cultured, educated, should cook well, should be getting things from her parents place on festival or occassions and many more. on the other hand they become ignorant towards their own daughters even if they don't have all the above qualities.

but I have a supportive husband so life isn't difficult.

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Shaikh Aliya Expecting Mom due in 1 month 5 years ago

it works very well for few ..who have their understanding in laws ..as many times ..babies do need love from their grandparents ..and one can teach them ..how to be good and respectable with elders ..
when u need some help related to child ..they came to rescue ..they advice u about upbringing ..and mostly ancient home remedies as they were experienced..
but In some families ..it causes a disaster ..due to pressure of household chores ..and underestimating their parenthood ..

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Prateeksha Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

depends on the mindset... every girl wants to see her family happy but smtyms mother in law make the girl insecure...i personally wish to live with them if they let everyone a peaceful life.... smtyms they started to compare us with their own time like HAM AISE RHTE THE... but they actually don't realize the time has changed n so frwrd...agar hum b unke Jaise Sochte rkhe to ghar, naukari aur bahar ki zimmedari ni utha Skte... dress se lekar time management tak Sab differ h aaj.... but smtyms they don't wish to support by heart

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Pooja Pramod Mom of a 6 yr 8 m old girl 5 years ago

everything is going good If husband give stand for their wives.

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Mandeep singh Father of a 6 yr old girl 5 years ago

In reply to Priyanka

I m married in joint family before baby or after baby meri family hi mere sath hai the thing is agr inlaws ki chinta hai to bhai shadi hi kyu krani apne parents to sabko pasand hote hai pati ke parents sab kuch kar rai hai ,ye ghar hmara ghar hai to in chejo ko lightly lena chahiye agr kuch bol bi dete hai unka pura hak hai mai khush hu apni family mai .

hak for what?

sudipta Mom of a 11 yr 8 m old girl 7 years ago

About relation ship with in-laws I prefer the western trend. Be separate but be in touch, visit often to both your own parents and in laws, take them to doctors, give respect and care.

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anuradha swami Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

every one should give respect and every one must get respect. either it is new bride or the head of family and other members. but it is sad that most of us can't get the respect. actually they are afraid of each other. newly bride doesn't know about the likes and dislikes of rest of family. she must be treated well in family. and newly bride is not your servent so it's not her fully responsibility to do household chores and other works. the saddest part of our society is mother in law often thinks that the bride has stolen her son, but it's not correct. she has left her home her family, her siblings for your son not for you. she must treated well she also deserves to spend some quality of time with her husband. but mom-in-law doesn't treated her well and quarrels and other issues started, which led mental depression in family specially girl has to go through it. mom-in-law often forgets she also had gone through the same situation in past yet she never stops herself from taunting girl and her family. so according to me it is better to live in nuclear family than joint family. when we live far the love become more.

very true

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Mythily Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to kiran yadav

because in-laws also need a lady who will do households for them.in short they want finance, clean home, and tasty food. after getting all this, still they will b never satisfied.

Agreed.. Mom-in-law needs her daughter life to be happy than her son life.. Is this motherhood character?

Mythily Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to kiran yadav

because in-laws also need a lady who will do households for them.in short they want finance, clean home, and tasty food. after getting all this, still they will b never satisfied.

Agreed.. Mom-in-law needs her daughter life to be happy than her son life.. Is this motherhood character?

kiran yadav Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to sUMBUL

I agree with your thoughts

totally agreed

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