my father and in my childhood days only they are separated I grew with my grandparents. I got married some one love marriage after I faced so many problems he did not give respect during pregnancy also any one helped my mom also she behaves iam enemy. she gave money but did not give love I hate my mother my husbands also he can\'t to talk to me his always insulting me why you r married me he blames always but I hope I have self respect
my father and in my childhood days only they are separated I grew with my grandparents. I got married some one love marriage after I faced so many problems he did not give respect during pregnancy also any one helped my mom also she behaves iam enemy. she gave money but did not give love I hate my mother my husbands also he can't to talk to me his always insulting me why you r married me he blames always but I hope I have self respect
It is rightly said,
FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT!!
Living with in laws after marraige is happy in the beginnings but tends to go intolerable thereafter for most ladies.
My opinion is that couples should move out of their families and have a separate life which would offer more privacy and build understanding between them, but reach out to your families whenever they need and visit them often. So the couple will have their life without any saas-bahu wars (in most cases) on the way.
Living with in laws after marraige is happy in the beginnings but tends to go intolerable thereafter for most ladies.
My opinion is that couples should move out of their families and have a separate life which would offer more privacy and build understanding between them, but reach out to your families whenever they need and visit them often. So the couple will have their life without any saas-bahu wars (in most cases) on the way.
Mam correct me if I\'m wrong but if a child is living in a joint family it\'s a blessing but think about the kids who actually see their mother and grand mother having issues and arguing on petite issues what that child would learn which value will get inculcated in that child. instead of having good values the child would only live in a confuses state or his mind will develop with such aggression. and that would make him a bad company for others.
If we treat inlaws as parents then u won’t get such issues. Nowadays we don’t see joint families becoz of various reasons. Children’s growing under joint families will learn respect,they won’t tend up with bad company will learn education beyond books.personal space when u feel lonely then only u will think of personal space if u feel ur living with ur parents then u won’t even think about it.
Mam correct me if I'm wrong but if a child is living in a joint family it's a blessing but think about the kids who actually see their mother and grand mother having issues and arguing on petite issues what that child would learn which value will get inculcated in that child. instead of having good values the child would only live in a confuses state or his mind will develop with such aggression. and that would make him a bad company for others.
I have stayed with my in-laws and it was extremely hard. I wouldn\'t generalise though as there are houses where people have stayed peacefully. my personal experience was there is no privacy and also hard if you have very dominating in-laws. I would not completely ignore my in-laws and I would love to take care of then when they are sick but I feel else it is better not stay together. As with my experience every relationship the far we stay the better and healthy the relationship is.
I have stayed with my in-laws and it was extremely hard. I wouldn't generalise though as there are houses where people have stayed peacefully. my personal experience was there is no privacy and also hard if you have very dominating in-laws. I would not completely ignore my in-laws and I would love to take care of then when they are sick but I feel else it is better not stay together. As with my experience every relationship the far we stay the better and healthy the relationship is.
First understand the in-laws mind set and emotions
then start discussing our views and thoughts in their ways. Then they can start understanding our mind set and emotions.
First understand the in-laws mind set and emotions
then start discussing our views and thoughts in their ways. Then they can start understanding our mind set and emotions.
FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT!!
Living with in laws after marraige is happy in the beginnings but tends to go intolerable thereafter for most ladies.
My opinion is that couples should move out of their families and have a separate life which would offer more privacy and build understanding between them, but reach out to your families whenever they need and visit them often. So the couple will have their life without any saas-bahu wars (in most cases) on the way.
then start discussing our views and thoughts in their ways. Then they can start understanding our mind set and emotions.
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