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Kajal M Sharma Mom of 11 children 4 years ago
if your partner supports u then u will manage everything and family is most important in any manner and also help to the best part of your child growth.
Renu Khatri Renu Guardian of 2 children 4 years ago
my pement please replace
Ishita Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
nicee
Mythily Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy 5 years ago
In reply to Richa Gulati
100% correct
Yes if husband understands us and manages both sides with same priority no problem will arise.
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Rachana Chavda Trying To Conceive 4 years ago
In reply to Himali
This is something I don't understand really. The girl always make sacrifices to keep her home happy. She is in a completely new environment and has to make lot of adjustments with her husband and in laws. Despite that no one respects her and takes care of her needs, emotions and feelings. She absolutely has to live like a machine with no complaints. I also made lot of sacrifices so that I can live with my family. I left my central govt. job just to live with my family. But my husband and his family never is able to appreciate this . Sometimes I regret very badly . I do not understand why the girls have to regret for the sacrifices they make. Why can't her family uphold her and support her in such a way that she should be proud of her decisions instead of regretting them.
our society will have to change and we have to do that by fulfilling our dreams and without any fear of in law's
Meghashree S Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
Living with In Laws is not difficult till when they leave son and daughter-in-law to leave happily. If they start controlling the son after marriage also means it start spoiling the mind of daughter-in-law.
No girl will tell after marriage husband should leave their parents but in nowadays parents should also understand and give privacy to them.
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Archana Gowda Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
In many a cases the small disputes that arises with the in laws shifted to quarrel or argument between the couples. Especially the beginning years of married life are crucial. In this period if it continues, it will destroy the foundation of love life between the couples. Some times the damage cannot be able to recover in future.
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Himali Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
In reply to Moomal Ravindra Ranawat
I've been a working woman before getting married. i would hav been a doctorate by now.
Bt i prefer to choose my family over everything. I do every single thing to keep them happy from cooking to cleaning every thing.
Unfortunately, I'm ill treated by my mother in law and sister in laws, they call me an outsider to their family despite m married 5yrs and i badly regret for choosing them ovr my career.
This is something I don't understand really. The girl always make sacrifices to keep her home happy. She is in a completely new environment and has to make lot of adjustments with her husband and in laws. Despite that no one respects her and takes care of her needs, emotions and feelings. She absolutely has to live like a machine with no complaints. I also made lot of sacrifices so that I can live with my family. I left my central govt. job just to live with my family. But my husband and his family never is able to appreciate this . Sometimes I regret very badly . I do not understand why the girls have to regret for the sacrifices they make. Why can't her family uphold her and support her in such a way that she should be proud of her decisions instead of regretting them.
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pooja jain Mom of 3 children 4 years ago
The irony is that people don't wanna stay with in laws.. u can makeup with ur in laws definitely when u can makeup with your parents. I have a beautiful relationship with my in laws. The reason for our bond is that initially I accepted them beat their nature, customs of family, their routine, lifestyle and if I felt something to be changed I tried to convince them with patience and today situation is that we are just one big happy family with 15 members and not a single grudge in any one's mind. Separation should never be an option coz they were there even in our blues.
Annie Pradhan Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
Depends upon the person specially mother in law. If they accept you the way you are then no issues. Or else life is hell. But still can't leave them as thinking of child's security.
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