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Anjali laxmikant Deshmukh Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

In reply to Zahabiya Dhanpurwala

Living with in-laws after marriage eases if husband is yours too along with his parents. If he does'nt support his wife from his family's and society's taunts and useless advises, life becomes hell. After becoming a mother, a women doesn't loses herself, infact finds herself in her child but if things go sideways, she feels mentally tortured by the people around her.
Nowadays, a girl doesn't just marry a man, she marries his family too. Thus, it is most important to have understanding and supporting inlaws and husband both.

so true... after become mom everybodies view about u changes... they cant understand that we are now mom nd our child needs our time love attention... they just think we should work like eariler nd they will handle our kids... but sometime kids wants to be with their mom without no reason... my in law view is that my kids comes to me only if they are hungry or sleepy... but sometime kids wants to play with me... listen to me.. get hugged from me...
just cant get me time... time with kids nd husband...

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manisha Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old boy 4 years ago

yes ,from my personal experience its actually difficult to live with them because inlaws will never treat you as their own daughter . according to mom inlaw you are never tired , you cant go out with your husband without your sis in law .
my mom in law used to check my food that was the irritating thing . she used to keep a check on what fruit n how much i have eaten .
if something is missing in the house then eyes will be on you as if you are thief in their house .
she never used to open almirah in front of me ..
worst part is they dont love your kid equally as their daughter kid . donno what is the reason . sometime its fruststing ...
yes they are responsibility so its is our duty to take care when they will be in need ,but its good to live separate and be with them when they are in need . this is best

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diana thokchom Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

it's true that personal space is often compromised. but if in-laws are a bit understanding they provide an enriching environment for the kids to grow up into.

aanchal gupta Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

In reply to Priya goel

sometimes it may create worst environment also

very true

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Priya goel Mom of 4 children 4 years ago

In reply to Sumeet Rana

It's with all!! you need to accept them as your parents and keep your ego out of the house!! we have to change ourselves and support. Things will change in sometime.

close your eyes,ears and mouth and just folow their orders😔

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reena pun Mom of a 5 yr 4 m old boy 4 years ago

In reply to Rachana Chavda

our society will have to change and we have to do that by fulfilling our dreams and without any fear of in law's

we all need change

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reena pun Mom of a 5 yr 4 m old boy 4 years ago

for me it's become hectic to live with in laws coz mostly in laws expectations are biased.our time , energy and personal space get drained out.we can't able to find a single me time for us!it's worst experience for me.

Shobha Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

100% true.... I'm with inlaws ☺️, always helpful with careful with my baby. Suggestions abt babies health,,, sometimes secured kind. 😍

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Priya goel Mom of 4 children 4 years ago

sometimes it may create worst environment also

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Sumeet Rana Father of a 4 yr 8 m old boy 4 years ago

It's with all!! you need to accept them as your parents and keep your ego out of the house!! we have to change ourselves and support. Things will change in sometime.

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