living with in laws...than your job is only to make food for them and their sanskari beti and her whole family...look after their kids ....smile always...whatever they say except it...other wise you are not sanskari...they will call her daughter\'s family always ...but not talk to parents of bahu...because unke opinion se they are not good....after marriage I need to take care of them and everything...and listen all there bakwaas..ooh it\'s whole lot of mental pressure ....
living with in laws...than your job is only to make food for them and their sanskari beti and her whole family...look after their kids ....smile always...whatever they say except it...other wise you are not sanskari...they will call her daughter's family always ...but not talk to parents of bahu...because unke opinion se they are not good....after marriage I need to take care of them and everything...and listen all there bakwaas..ooh it's whole lot of mental pressure ....
yes ,from my personal experience its actually difficult to live with them because inlaws will never treat you as their own daughter . according to mom inlaw you are never tired , you cant go out with your husband without your sis in law .
my mom in law used to check my food that was the irritating thing . she used to keep a check on what fruit n how much i have eaten .
if something is missing in the house then eyes will be on you as if you are thief in their house .
she never used to open almirah in front of me ..
worst part is they dont love your kid equally as their daughter kid . donno what is the reason . sometime its fruststing ...
yes they are responsibility so its is our duty to take care when they will be in need ,but its good to live separate and be with them when they are in need . this is best
Am living in a joint family where I am the youngest out of 6. We all have our own privacy terms so we don\'t even disturb others. If u don\'t feel something is right you must discuss. No other solution is possible.
Am living in a joint family where I am the youngest out of 6. We all have our own privacy terms so we don't even disturb others. If u don't feel something is right you must discuss. No other solution is possible.
as per me being with in-laws.... totally my husband maintain distance from me . v both dnt hve gud communication properly.. . to spk anythnk I shuld wait until he cum to bed room to spk .... sometimes I feel I'm losing my patient... and angry lot ....
this in laws story is actually gud for all bahuz..
1.they make us strong (every day chik chick will make u fit for any kind of arguments in side as well as outside)
2. they make us a hard worker (whole day household work means u are fit enough to work in any situation including official work)
3. they make us confident(confidence that our parents are the best no one can replace them)
this in laws story is actually gud for all bahuz..
1.they make us strong (every day chik chick will make u fit for any kind of arguments in side as well as outside)
2. they make us a hard worker (whole day household work means u are fit enough to work in any situation including official work)
3. they make us confident(confidence that our parents are the best no one can replace them)
mere saath bhi aisa hua hai or bhukha hai to mumma ki responsibility hai..jab baby khush hai sou k utha hai to usse khelne ka uske saath time spend karne hakk v nhi tha mujhe..jaise mein apne baby ki maa nhi naany hun..meri saari in-law family mere khilaf hai or mera husband bhi...kisi kisi k kismat achi hoti hai jinko in-law k roop mein achi piyaari family milti hai n husband too
so true... after become mom everybodies view about u changes... they cant understand that we are now mom nd our child needs our time love attention... they just think we should work like eariler nd they will handle our kids... but sometime kids wants to be with their mom without no reason... my in law view is that my kids comes to me only if they are hungry or sleepy... but sometime kids wants to play with me... listen to me.. get hugged from me...
just cant get me time... time with kids nd husband...
mere saath bhi aisa hua hai or bhukha hai to mumma ki responsibility hai..jab baby khush hai sou k utha hai to usse khelne ka uske saath time spend karne hakk v nhi tha mujhe..jaise mein apne baby ki maa nhi naany hun..meri saari in-law family mere khilaf hai or mera husband bhi...kisi kisi k kismat achi hoti hai jinko in-law k roop mein achi piyaari family milti hai n husband too
Very true. I m lucky in that case. My husband handels the situation very well if at all there is some dispite. He remains neutral. He corrects my in laws if they are wrong and does same with me.
everything goes smoothly only if you have a supportive husband. when he just doesn't bother about you at all . everyone in his family will take you for granted and problem arises.
Very true. I m lucky in that case. My husband handels the situation very well if at all there is some dispite. He remains neutral. He corrects my in laws if they are wrong and does same with me.
my mom in law used to check my food that was the irritating thing . she used to keep a check on what fruit n how much i have eaten .
if something is missing in the house then eyes will be on you as if you are thief in their house .
she never used to open almirah in front of me ..
worst part is they dont love your kid equally as their daughter kid . donno what is the reason . sometime its fruststing ...
yes they are responsibility so its is our duty to take care when they will be in need ,but its good to live separate and be with them when they are in need . this is best
1.they make us strong (every day chik chick will make u fit for any kind of arguments in side as well as outside)
2. they make us a hard worker (whole day household work means u are fit enough to work in any situation including official work)
3. they make us confident(confidence that our parents are the best no one can replace them)
just cant get me time... time with kids nd husband...
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