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priyanka Mom of a 6 yr 3 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to sheeba Prabu

my mom was not there for the first month and my mother in law was with me and hubby works abroad..So I was in a situation to take care of myself and my daughter..I used to cry a lot..because it's my first time Being a mom and there was no one shed a light on my queries and to support...it was really hard for me.after delivery I didn't sleep at all..even to bath I have to let the door open so that I could see what she does..and at night I used to get scared because of colic she used to cry a lot and I don't know how to manage her all I did was cry and prayed that the time should move fast..my in-laws never helped me and they were not ok with maid so I have to do entire household work..still whenever I think of those days tear comes out unknowingly..I wish everything turns out good..even my husband was not there he left to work after 10 days of delivery.now am n my mom's house and she looks after me and my lo

dont worry dear, I'm also 1month old girl mom. sare baby asehi hote hai din may sote hai or raat ko jagte tahete hai rote hai. mane vi love marriage ki hai hum dono vi akele hi rahete hai. jab baby ayi tab Hume vi batane wala koi nhi aya dono manage kar rahe hai

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sheeba Prabu Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

my mom was not there for the first month and my mother in law was with me and hubby works abroad..So I was in a situation to take care of myself and my daughter..I used to cry a lot..because it's my first time Being a mom and there was no one shed a light on my queries and to support...it was really hard for me.after delivery I didn't sleep at all..even to bath I have to let the door open so that I could see what she does..and at night I used to get scared because of colic she used to cry a lot and I don't know how to manage her all I did was cry and prayed that the time should move fast..my in-laws never helped me and they were not ok with maid so I have to do entire household work..still whenever I think of those days tear comes out unknowingly..I wish everything turns out good..even my husband was not there he left to work after 10 days of delivery.now am n my mom's house and she looks after me and my lo

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Anuja Mestri Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

I am going through this and it's very tough to handle yourself. I burst into tears for no reason. At times I regret my decision of marrying though I love my husband a lot. I cannot share this with my husband as this may hurt him and he may not understand my situation

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Priya. Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to yamini

m a mother of two daughters so it's self explanatory that how much I have gone through on their birth. for the first 2 months there were quarrels for no reason. it were the most difficult time for me. I felt m going in stress n it's not good for my babies. but I kept quiet n prayed to God.

but to be very frank I don't care. I have a simple statement for those incl my mother or in laws. I have given birth to them, I m spending money on them so please excuse me. I don't want to listen anything about
my daughter's anymore. tell you life will be easy. being polite n straight forward solves many problems.

but for all this we need a supportive husband. n I have that one. he stood with me in every difficult time which is y I could recover from stress n anxiety.

I am a mother of 2 daughters too and what u said about being clear and having a supporting husband, I totally agree with it.I am too dealing with frustration but at the same time loving to be with my angels..

Mohamed Rahamathulla A Father of 5 children 6 years ago

be happy about new relationship. divert ur mind by seeing ur babies development.

Neelisha Mom of a 7 yr old boy 6 years ago

In reply to NIDHI

yes I m a bad mom. becoz I left my 6 month baby for making my career

Don't think on a negative note. Think a positive side of it. Every one has to face some issues. That doesn't mean they are bad. May be you were not having any choice other than joining your office. May be you might be facing some financial issues. Be positive and think whatever you are doing you are doing for better future of your baby. Don't let others effect your views.

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Sapna Thapa Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to gauri

m also one who is upset due to ma wght nd its like m fi8ng nd gettng angry eith evryvdy still dey r vry supprtng... gettng loud over the small thngs.. i dnt knw any way to get out frm dis.. tough m tryng.. dnt.. knw.. i cant even share dis with smbdy... m alsmt in vry bad situtn due to all home prblms.. partner prblm .. ma baby is also gettng ill aftr smtm.. its vry bad.. vry bad.. m done with dis one.. helpless

be strong everything is going to be fine..

yamini Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

m a mother of two daughters so it's self explanatory that how much I have gone through on their birth. for the first 2 months there were quarrels for no reason. it were the most difficult time for me. I felt m going in stress n it's not good for my babies. but I kept quiet n prayed to God.

but to be very frank I don't care. I have a simple statement for those incl my mother or in laws. I have given birth to them, I m spending money on them so please excuse me. I don't want to listen anything about
my daughter's anymore. tell you life will be easy. being polite n straight forward solves many problems.

but for all this we need a supportive husband. n I have that one. he stood with me in every difficult time which is y I could recover from stress n anxiety.

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Simranjeet Kaur Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

In reply to Madhuri Vaidya

hey! please remember you are important. only because of you the baby is here. take care of the baby but don't neglect yourself. Pamper yourself too, it's very important as that will help you release stress.

Don't bother about what your in-laws and husband, I know it's difficult to ignore but that's the only solution. Find something interesting to do, join post natal class with your baby. Go out with you friends occasionally. go for a spa and de-stress.

I'm very happy that you went to your mom's place for couple of months. First baby should always be at your mom's place cuz they teach you in a nice way.

Don't be upset, we all are here for you, whenever you feel low then message us and please know that YOU ARE FOUND GREATTT AND YOU ARE A FABULOUS MOM ❤️❤️

hiii I went through ur story dear,in India every grand mother wants only baby boy from her daughter in law though she knows the whole process.If u deliver a baby boy then everyone near dear wants to come n cherish the moment ,give blessings n everything . Unfortunately if it's gal in second delivery everything n everyone starts blame u knowingly which is not a genuine matter .So don't expect anything from anyone b mature n love ur self .Feel proud being a mother

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Prerna Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Due to medical reasons my mother was not there during my pregnancy but my MOL was.. she was with me for the nest 3 months and would not at all help me .. I used to get irritated and frustrated.. me and hubby would have fights on weekends.. I finally asked him to send my MOL back and instead hire a full time nanny to help me look after me precious.. those were the worst days... I could not breastfeed my baby for longer time due to lack of proper support.. but now it's all good.. good that hubby and me realised it soon since 6th month we have been taking care of our little one by ourselves .. better late than never

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