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Challenges after Delivery
Giving birth is a unique experience as it marks the start of motherhood. After the delivery of your baby,you are accompanied by many challenges physically,emotionally & financially. The postpartum period can be quite difficult.Dear Moms, share with us the challenges you faced after having a baby.
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sapna chauhan Mom of a 6 yr 1 m old girl 5 years ago
yeah,its a unique expperience after having a baby..i m mother of 10 mnths old angel...all routine of mom n dad totally changed...in early mnths my angel dnt want to sleep till early morning n next day my hubby hav office...we face many problms throughtout this time but i m lucky that my hubby give me a moral support olws...he also dnt want to sleep till baby is nt sleeping.....we both see many sleepless night n in morning we strt our daily routine work....but it was very intresting phase of our life...many moments are there.....
Urmi Ghosh Dutta Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
Me and my husband planned so many things as it was our first baby. After I conceived faced lots of troubles. Few things was our personal matters and later Covid 19 pandamic. Now I m mom of 1 month old baby boy, delivered on 29th April, in Kolkata nursing home. My husband stucked in Singapore. Still haven't touched our new born. As a new mom emotionally & physically it's very challenging time for me. but I have faith in God everything will be 🙏 fine.
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Shraddha Gupta Mom of 4 children 5 years ago
In reply to Vasudha L
Since our baby was premature, she was in NICU for 5 days due to sugar fluctuations; Breastmilk production, extraction to be given in NICU; had to keep her in certain temperature for first few weeks; only sponge bath for almost 1.5 months ( where people asked to give oil bath n doctors asked not to.. we went with doctor's advice) ; finding dress that fit her; Asking visitors to use hand sanitizer before touching baby; handling Anxiety when visitors with cough / cold/ fever came; Not to get offended when people commented that she is tiny; Increasing her weight by hourly feed and formula combination - an hour or two sleep per day for almost two months which resulted in back pain later - that almost made me bedridden for a day;

Now she is almost nearing baseline weight at 8 months. She has this special smile only for me; she is real fighter - has overcome so many obstacles; Makes my days special; except that she is not chubby , she is now active and reaching milestones as expected.
Hey Vasudha...after reading your story i found many similarities with my story...like having premature baby, being in NICU, milk extraction, those anxities, avoiding social norms and following only doctors advice, and the big one not having a chubby but an active baby...but i
am sure our babies smile always makes our day.
stay strong
Ruchita Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
In reply to Pooja
Thanks for sharing your experience, I have 7 weeks old baby and have developed piles during post pregnancy phase. It’s painful n bring a lot of discomfort. Have you been taking any treatment, if yes then please share

Would suggest to extend your joining by 2 months as thing may not get better by June
my baby girl is 7 weeks old. i have severe pain while pooping. in this covid scenario we have not been able to consult doctor also. not able to understand is it fissure or piles. it's been 3 weeks now. really worried how will this problem go away.
but yes, looking at the baby girl makes things better :)
sai pranavi Suram Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
Me and my husband were very excited to know whether it's baby girl or baby boy.finally after delivery we came to know that it's little angel. we are very happy with the news .I forgot the pains I faced during normal delivery.
some problems I faced after delivery are
1.episiotomy pains
2.i was worried whether breast milk will be sufficient or not..I have tried many things..but now it is sufficient for my baby
3.i felt very very drowsy for first few days due to which I used to sleep all the time
4.sleepless nights..somedays my baby didn't slept the entire night
5.back pain
shilpa Mom of 6 children 5 years ago
Mere.husband army me hai to ....unhe delivery k.time pe shuti nhi.mili...hum ek sath hona chahte the is time.pe pr job ki wjh se ye possible e nhi hua ....or jb baby k birth ka time aya to mujhe pain night me.start ho gai thi but.jda nhi thi .....fer dr k pas gye to unhone bola jd pain increase ho tb btana ...ek.night maine apne ghr pe pain k sath bitaya ....next night hospital me bitai pr pain waise e hoti rahi ...thodi der hoti thi fir normal ....then agle.din mujhe 2 pm ko pain increase hui ...then delivery .........or bilkul thik se delivery ho gai ....mujhe dr tha ki koi complications na ho jaye ...kunki 2 nights and half day k bad delivery thi ....or sath me hubby bhi nhi the ...jd meri beti SAANJH 🥰 ka birth hua to ye pain bhi yd nhi rhi ....or ek alg c or itni pyari c feeling thi....wo words me explain e nhi hoti ....in sb me maine hubby ko miss.kiya but ye easy is liye raha.kunki meri dono side ki family's ne bhot care ki
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Urmi Ghosh Dutta Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
In reply to Rishita
so proud of tge way your taking it up 😀
tx 😊
Rishita Mom of a 6 yr 11 m old boy 5 years ago
In reply to Urmi Ghosh Dutta
Me and my husband planned so many things as it was our first baby. After I conceived faced lots of troubles. Few things was our personal matters and later Covid 19 pandamic. Now I m mom of 1 month old baby boy, delivered on 29th April, in Kolkata nursing home. My husband stucked in Singapore. Still haven't touched our new born. As a new mom emotionally & physically it's very challenging time for me. but I have faith in God everything will be 🙏 fine.
so proud of tge way your taking it up 😀
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anushka Mom of a 5 yr 11 m old girl 5 years ago
Yes its a unique experience...but mine is quite difficult also...in 5th month of pregnancy doctors said that my baby has cleft lip and palate..i dont know what is the problem actually...than i started gain knowledge about this and prepared myself.. but after delivery actual struggle begin...because of my princess problem she cant feed my milk...beacuse of sleepless nights i cant express my milk properly...thats why she based on formula milk till now..when she was 2 month old her father was hospitalized... i was alone for both of them..i was depressed for long time but than i thought about my baby only and encourage myself for everything which was happening around me...now she is 6 months old..her surgery is done..she is fine...😊
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Community User 5 years ago
Indeed everyone has some or other story so did i. my whole pregnancy was in stress as when i got to know i am pregnant simultaneously my dad was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer he fought with it for months n just 1month before i delivered he left us.i was in depression badly but when i looked at my baby i felt my father has come back in our life.
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