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Challenges after Delivery

Giving birth is a unique experience as it marks the start of motherhood. After the delivery of your baby,you are accompanied by many challenges physically,emotionally & financially. The postpartum period can be quite difficult.Dear Moms, share with us the challenges you faced after having a baby.

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Swati Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

jb meri beti hui .. beta hubby aur mai hospital se apni nanhi pari ko le k aaye.mere hubby ne mujhe aur dono bachcho ko samhala.khana bna kr khilane se le kr raat bhar beti ko godi m liye rahna. meri dekhbhal karna..sb kuchh mere husband ne akele kiya.2nd day se mene husband k sath ghar k chhote chhote kamo m help karaya. thoda mushkil tha bt alag ke mza tha.

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Somya 0 Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

My baby is not feeding properly from breast

Krati sharma Guardian of a 12 yr 10 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Ruchita

my baby girl is 7 weeks old. i have severe pain while pooping. in this covid scenario we have not been able to consult doctor also. not able to understand is it fissure or piles. it's been 3 weeks now. really worried how will this problem go away.
but yes, looking at the baby girl makes things better :)

Take movicol syrup for 3 days according to indications given on the box. my doc suggested me for the same problem

Sarabjeet Guardian of a 27 yr 1 m old boy 6 years ago

My baby wants breast feed but I can’t give him bcoz milk nhi a raah proper

Silpa R Mom of 8 children 6 years ago

my baby was in incubulater (NICU) for 14 days. The condition of the baby became worse on the third day and was transferred to a better hospital where there was even advanced incubulater. Those were the worst days.

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Ruchita Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to Vasudha L

Since our baby was premature, she was in NICU for 5 days due to sugar fluctuations; Breastmilk production, extraction to be given in NICU; had to keep her in certain temperature for first few weeks; only sponge bath for almost 1.5 months ( where people asked to give oil bath n doctors asked not to.. we went with doctor's advice) ; finding dress that fit her; Asking visitors to use hand sanitizer before touching baby; handling Anxiety when visitors with cough / cold/ fever came; Not to get offended when people commented that she is tiny; Increasing her weight by hourly feed and formula combination - an hour or two sleep per day for almost two months which resulted in back pain later - that almost made me bedridden for a day;

Now she is almost nearing baseline weight at 8 months. She has this special smile only for me; she is real fighter - has overcome so many obstacles; Makes my days special; except that she is not chubby , she is now active and reaching milestones as expected.

really. taking care of a premature child is tough. you did great. hats off. my baby girl had a low birth weight, though she is a full term baby. I am also going through people calling her tiny, weak etc. she is now 7 weeks old and weight is low. her growth is also slow maybe because of low birth weight. fitting clothes is a challenge for us as well. great to hear your experience.

Sana Mom of a 6 yr 11 m old boy 6 years ago

I regret now but i suffered postpartum depression

Mrs.Sharmila Venu Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

one-man army

Mrs.Sharmila Venu Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

one man arny

Pooja Mom of a 6 yr 5 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Surabhi Talwar

This was my first pregnancy. And I was eagerly waiting for my daughter. I am a Nephrologist and was very naive. I thought that like most of the mothers in my family, I will go back to work after she is 3 months old. I had to work hard for my job and did not want to take much leave. Hence I was working daily even in the last trimester and ultimately went for my delivery from my workplace directly. As soon as I saw my daughter, my life has changed. There were many challenges and I had lots of help to get through it. The first problem was breast feeding- there were issues with latching and I had painful engorgement. After this u had severe pain at episiotomy site and could not sit properly for a month after delivery. This was followed by recurrent anal bleeding due to piles and multiple fissures. But all through this my baby was the reason u could see the light at the end of the tunnel. However, my life went crazy when my little one developed ear infection and I saw pus coming out of her ears. The pediatrician felt it maybe because of the position I was holding my child in- while breast feeding her. I kept blaming myself for days. I kept thinking about how I had missed the fact that she must have had ear pain, how I should have picked that up as a mother and taken her to the Pediatrician earlier. All this stress suppressed my milk production. I was spiralling. Then somehow with my husbands support I got better. Through all this whenever I looked at my baby, all my pain would go away. Today she is 4 and a half months old and I still have anal bleeding due to hemorrhoids and fissure. But all that pain is much less than the pain that I feel when I think about leaving her at home and re joining work in June, especially in this covid era.

Thanks for sharing your experience, I have 7 weeks old baby and have developed piles during post pregnancy phase. It’s painful n bring a lot of discomfort. Have you been taking any treatment, if yes then please share

Would suggest to extend your joining by 2 months as thing may not get better by June

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