How Soon Can Babies Start Holding Bottle on Their Own

How Soon Can Babies Start Holding Bottle on Their Own

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While most mothers find feeding their babies is a good time to bond, there comes a time in every baby’s life when he will want to learn to start holding his bottle on his own. Most often, this happens once he has reached a certain point of development. You can always help your baby along by encouraging him to start becoming more self-sufficient at feeding time.





When Can a Baby Hold a Bottle?

You may be wondering, “When will my baby hold his bottle?” and the answer is: anywhere from four months up to ten months of age. It all depends on when his fine motor skills begin to develop. However, the average age at which a baby starts holding his bottle is when he is six months of age.

Signs Baby is Ready to Hold the Bottle on His Own

Observing your baby carefully will give you clues as to whether or not he is ready to start holding that bottle. Here are some to look out for:




1. Reaching for It

Not only does reaching out for the bottle show that your baby is able to make the connection between his bottle and food, but also that he is interested in it.

2. Sits Up Longer

If your baby is not yet able to sit up, then he cannot hold his bottle yet as it requires him to use his fine motor skills. All of this requires him to sit straight by himself for a period of time.





3. Sits and Gnaws

Your baby is multitasking when he gnaws on something while sitting down. This is something he needs to be able to do as she holds the bottle and drinks from it at the same time.

How to Teach Your Baby to Hold His Bottle?

It can be very helpful if your baby can hold his own bottle, but even if he can’t, you can always help him along by teaching him how. Here are some ways you can teach him:




1. Don’t Rush

Wait for the right time to start teaching your baby to hold the bottle. Your baby needs to be physically developed enough to hold his own bottle and bring it to his mouth, which requires some coordination.

2. Show Your Baby What to Do

Hold your baby’s hands to the bottle as you feed him to show him how it is done. Hold the bottle with one hand and then with your other, place the baby’s hands on the bottle.





3. Watch Your Baby’s Reaction

Observe your baby’s reaction when you feel that he can handle holding the bottle independently. When you remove your hands, he should be able to hold on to it for at least a little while; if not, he will then notice that he is not getting any milk. Reposition the bottle and watch. Soon your baby will make the connection and understand that holding the bottle a certain way lets him get the milk.

4. Hold Your Baby

Always hold your baby in your arms as you normally would while bottle feeding him when you are teaching him how to do it. This will help him retain the sense of security and comfort that he normally has while feeding.




5. Follow Your Baby’s Progress

Be observant towards your baby while you teach him how to feed himself. Initially, you will need to hold your baby’s elbows up so that the bottle is positioned correctly. Soon enough, your baby is going to be holding that bottle all by himself.

Mother teaching baby to hold bottle

Why Should You Stay Away from Bottle Propping

It is not ideal to simply prop the bottle up to the correct angle to feed your baby and leave it at that. This is extremely dangerous as your baby may choke or overeat. Babies are also at risk of tooth decay or ear infections if they fall asleep with the bottle in their mouth.





If a baby is unable to sit straight by himself and hold the bottle, it is a clear indication that he is not ready to hold his bottle on his own in the first place.

Tips to Help Your Infant Hold His Bottle

Here are a few handy tips to help make teaching your baby to hold his bottle flow smoothly:




1. Have Patience

Be patient with your baby as you teach him. Learning to coordinate bringing the bottle to his mouth is hard.

2. Cuddle Time

Babies and mothers both enjoy the bond between them during feeding time, so keep holding your baby while you teach him. Even if your baby can feed on his own, it is still a good idea to cuddle him as he does.





3. Keep Supporting

Though your baby may be able to hold the bottle, keep supporting him in the beginning.

4. Watch Carefully

While your baby learns, you need to keep a careful eye on him to see how well he is doing and if he is able to feed himself properly.




5. Listen Well

A lot of suckling noises from your baby may mean that he is taking in more air than he should be. Help him out here by repositioning the bottle or holding the baby’s head up a little bit.

6. Do Not Force

If your baby is not able to hold the bottle by the average age, do not worry and do not force it on him. He may not yet have developed the required skills needed. This is perfectly normal for a lot of babies.


Baby holding bottle on her own

Precautions to Take Care while Infant Holds the Bottle

While you may think that your baby being able to hold his bottle on his own means you get to do other things during that time, think again. Your baby is still too young to fully understand how to cope with the situations that may arise during feeding. For example, if his bottle is propped wrong, there might be too much milk coming through.

1. Avoid Leaving Your Baby Alone

Just because your little one is capable of holding his own bottle, you should not leave your baby alone. Babies tend to drop things very easily and if your baby drops his bottle and you are not there to help him, he may end up going hungry. Worse, he may try and get the bottle himself, possibly falling down. If he is somewhere high, like in his chair or on a sofa, this can have disastrous circumstances.

2. Do Not Prop the Bottle

Propping the bottle has many disadvantages, as discussed earlier. It leads to overeating and the possibility of choking.

3. Don’t Feed Your Baby Lying Down :

If you keep your baby lying down during feeding time, your baby will develop ear infections. This is because the milk or the formula can flow into the Eustachian tubes of his ears and may remain there, causing an infection.


4. Bond Deprivation

Holding your baby while he feeds provides him with a sense of security and strengthens the bond. This is why you need to continue to hold your child even if he can hold his bottle by himself.

5. Use Appropriate Feeding Gear :

Using the correctly shaped nipples can help with positioning the tongue properly. However, using a nipple that allows too much to get through may cause your baby to have difficulty coping and may cause him to choke.

Is it a Problem if Baby is Not Holding Bottle

Keep in mind that each baby will develop at his own pace. This developmental pace will also determine at what age babies start holding their own bottles. As long as he reaches his developmental milestones and you know there is nothing physically wrong with your baby, it really is not a problem. If your baby is not holding the bottle yet, you can always try giving him a sippy cup as the handles on those are much easier for your baby to hold.

Teaching your baby how to hold his own bottle will require patience from you, but your baby will get it eventually. Some get it really quickly, while others lag behind. It is imperative for your baby to grow and develop well. Continue to bond with your baby by holding him in your arms, whether or not he has mastered holding his bottle, as this time you and your baby share together will help him gain a sense of warmth and security.


Also Read: Bottle Feeding Problems and Solutions