my twins are 23 months old but they are not good at anything like they cry alot while taking bath washing pops brushing teeth changing clothes and they fights alot i have never seen a toddler fighting like them they are still eats semi solid form food like kheer Poridge etc though they can eat solid foods properly but they eat it in very less quantity in my first motherhood period I always feel I'm not doing any thing right that's why my kids are not coopreting that's why they cry alot fights alot I'm so hopeless I don't know what to do?????