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HomeQuestions & AnswersMy mil is separating me from my husband and not letting him come and live with me and the baby. Now she has brainwashed him to believe than my parents and I are bad. I can’t separate because of baby but I am getting depressed due to verbal abuse. Does it improve or we need to face it life long?
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Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy6 years ago
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My mil is separating me from my husband and not letting him come and live with me and the baby. Now she has brainwashed him to believe than my parents and I are bad. I can’t separate because of baby but I am getting depressed due to verbal abuse. Does it improve or we need to face it life long?

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NikithaMom of a 10 yr 9 m old child6 years ago
A. hello..it's common with most womene...but not to worry...it depends on how you handle things..you should try talking to your hubby...don't blame it talk anything about his mom..just start speaking casually...your baby love can attract him too
shilpi BhandariMom of 2 children6 years ago
A. hello dear if you want to continue with your relationship then you have to win the confidence of your husband first talk to him only about your relationship but not about the bad things that going around talk to him about your life talk to him about your baby because the only thing you want this time is a happy life with your husband so make it sure r him about the same
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