my kid is not willing to hold pencil at all, and does not want to write

A. thank you for reaching out to us this important question please note we do not expect a 3 year old to hold a pencil they should start holding a pencil only when they treat junior KG so that about 4 years so please do not force him his hand muscles have to improve especially his pincer grip tape the muscles of the three fingers that they hold the pencil with so give him a lot of atta or a lot of Play doh to play with that will help improve the grip that when he will naturally start writing you can also use Jumbo crayons right now to help him right