my child argues a lot and is v. rude to elders, I hit him so much and I am getting v. irritated of him, when I just stop talking to him or if I am angry, he tells that he will be like a good boy, but again he starts same behavior, I don't know because of him I am getting mood swings or because of me he is behaving like this, i am fed up of crying when he misbhaves, I am unable to correct myself nor him, he cries for every thing, as soon as he starts crying I get so irritated and scold him, pls suggest me how to correct him or myself

A. Talk to your child understand why your child is behaving like this because if you keep hitting your child and you stop talking and the child says I will be a good boy and repeat the same thing you are not realising your child is going to get more admit over the period because at the end of the day the child will know that you are only going to hit and scolded there is no other way out that you have so it is better that patiently talk to your child why do you behave like this I am always there for you be more patient and more compassionate towards your child you have to work on your patience and attitude towards your child and please monitor the behaviour talk to the child who understand what is going wrong