My baby is 5 years old. I am discussing with you a different problem. please help me. for a some days my baby is being very angry with his father. always telling father is bad. even if his father rulling him he is also ruled to his father. why this is happening I don't know. please help.

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#Rashmi ma'am, my father in law not a dominated person. My husband is dominating everyone at our home. My son is watching all from his childhood that's why his behaviour for his dad in the same. I understand your word and I realise my son's behaviour for his dad.

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Look the problem is what I could understand is that your husband has been dominated by his father your father-in-law and that is why your husband is also trying to do the same thing with your child because that is what he learnt from his experience with his father so I think you you should talk to your husband in the first place you have to tell him that if you do not like the way you have been treated always or dominated by your father do not repeat the same thing with your child otherwise you are going to lose that collection and your son will never come close to you in terms of emotional connect so you need to be more friendly with him don’t raise your child in the same way as you have been as you were dominated and still controlled by your father then you talk to your child I know to understand but tell him that even dadu behave the same way with your dad that is why he also behaved the same with you but he is going to change for you but he’s not bad he’s very good he’s also struggling to give it the best that he knows and the best he can do for you so you have to try to strike a balance between both son and father you have to be a bridge between them so talk to your husband First with calm and patience you know you require a lot of patience to deal with both the relations at the same time so that you do not let them drift apart you have to be that strong bridge between them