my baby girl is 4 months old. she cries a lot during day time if she is left in cradle alone or in bed someone should be near her or should be carrying her. she is very attached to me and if I don't be around her sje cries. noone could pacify her except me. bxoz of this couldn't do any work.. I am in joint family. we couldn't hire extra maid also. I am getting frustrating on family members. and I have older daughter to look after too. does using pacifier a solution to this problem. plz answer.