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Mom of a 9 yr 2 m old girl4 years ago

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I am a single mother with 2 daughters 3+ and 5. kids stay with nanny as I am working and they don't listen to me so do I need to scold them or I have to handle them with love. everyone says that I over pamper them.

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Ginni AhluwaliaMom of a 7 yr 7 m old girl4 years ago

A. hi! first of all be proud of yourself as you are working hard to raise your kids in the best possible way. Whenever you get time, just try to dedicate maximum time to your kids with love and affection, so that they get attached to you. After all kids love their mom's the most. if you scold them they ll feel, it's a way of expressing anger & then will start reacting in similar way. Example if they don't listen to u, u can handle them calmly by asking, what happened, why are you behaving like this? I tried the same with my kid, & has seen lots of changes. Try to engage the kids in lot of activities for an hr or so, so that they get more involved with you. I m sure making few changes in your routine, shall definitely, help. All the best!!

Dr GhouseGuardian of 3 children4 years ago

A. certainly a single mother has to face so many problems since you may not be interacting more with your baby and you are busy with your profession the relation between children and mother may be trained please interact more with the baby

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