Hi, i have twins age- 1 yr 4+ months...both are girls...off late, twin 1 seems to be very cranky,nagging constantly for something, even hitting, trying to hurt the other twin 2
She seems to raise hand if her demands are not fulfilled. She was extremely shy and quiet kind of baby and still is very loving and responsive...But this sudden change since past few months is not expected. She gets very irritated and angry at everyone if we donot allow her to do something or stop her from doing anything. She even hits us if we stop her. Is this a behavioral change that they do through, as my twin 2 is not like this. Although they both make love and then immediately fight for something - maybe phone, remote or toys.. Please suggest

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Hi, i have twins age- 1 yr 4+ months...both are girls...off late, twin 1 seems to be very cranky,nagging constantly for something, even hitting,  trying to hurt the other twin 2
 She seems to raise hand if her demands are not fulfilled. She was extremely shy and quiet kind of baby and still is very loving and responsive...But this sudden change since past few months is not expected. She gets very irritated and angry at everyone if we donot allow her to do something or stop her from doing anything. She even hits us if we stop her. Is this a behavioral change that they do through, as my twin 2 is not like this. Although they both make love and then immediately fight for something - maybe phone, remote or toys.. Please suggest

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I can completely understand that you are handling twins  and it’s very difficult for you but you can hire a help also if you don’t believe me you can ask your doctor they don’t recommend any screen time before the age of two years and specially mobile phone because it can delay the growth of the child mentally physically and verbally now you think how much practical it is for you to use mobile phones even if you are using them and also due to certain changes into the behaviour of the child can sometimes be due to the screen time that you give because you never know what are they going to pick up even from basic cartoons that the sea and the kids are very smart by the age of 1 1/2 two years if the kids are given screen time on mobile for a longer duration operate the entire mobile when it comes to changing the channels also I have seen that personally with kids which is why I am telling you I don’t have screen time it’s good for your kids both of them and also I would recommend you to consult your doctor

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hi, am available before them when they watch..also they are 1yr 4+ month not 4 years that they know t change channels... they only watch cocomelon, which a cartoon channel...also when handling twins all these notions of bot giving phone and all doesn't help.specially if u handle twins u will know....

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How can you give phone to your kids at this age that’s absolutely the most in correcting to be done I think these behavioural issues are because of the screen time that you are giving maybe your child is learning from the screen as in you know maybe your child is watching something and also it is not a very healthy behaviour I suggest you to consult a child psychologist one time will help you understand the behaviour of the child how to change it how can you make it better over the period