hello, main 11yrs boy ki mom hu. mujhe Uske bare me puchna h ki hmara transferable job h or Mera beta Thora shy nature Ka h or HM jaha rehte h waha k bachee use aache SE treat Nahi karte h use bilkul hi corner Kar dete h or wo Ander SE Bhar hara h par Kuch BHI bolts Nahi h na mujhe or na hi bachoo KO or wo Ghar me Kabhi Kabhi guess BHI karta h ..his wajh SE uska padhai me BHI Mann nahi Lagta h or Nahi koi extra activities me ..pahle interest let's tha Kisi BHI chez me ab bahut Kam leta h abhi hme yaha Aaye 4month hua h wo apni felling share Nahi Kar pa Raha h ...or dusre bachoo KO main bol Nahi Sakti ...wo bachee Bolte h ki iske pass dimag Nahi h ..ye sun bilkul BHI aacha Nahi Lagta h main janti hu ki Mera beta utna aacha Nahi khel pata h par kharb BHI Nahi h khelne me koi usko mouka hi Nahi deta h or galat cheeze bol k usko demotivate krte h main kya Karu kaise Aapne bachee k Ander confident Lau ???

Question

hello, main 11yrs boy ki mom hu. mujhe Uske bare me puchna h ki hmara transferable job h or Mera beta Thora shy nature Ka h or HM jaha rehte h waha k bachee use aache SE treat Nahi karte h use bilkul hi corner Kar dete h or wo Ander SE Bhar hara h par Kuch BHI bolts Nahi h na mujhe or na hi bachoo KO or wo Ghar me Kabhi Kabhi guess BHI karta h ..his wajh SE uska padhai me BHI Mann nahi Lagta h  or Nahi koi extra activities me ..pahle interest let's tha Kisi BHI chez me ab bahut Kam leta h abhi hme yaha Aaye 4month hua h wo apni felling share Nahi Kar pa Raha h ...or dusre bachoo KO main bol Nahi Sakti ...wo bachee Bolte h ki iske pass dimag Nahi h ..ye sun bilkul BHI aacha Nahi Lagta h main janti hu ki Mera beta utna aacha Nahi khel pata h par kharb BHI Nahi h khelne me koi usko mouka hi Nahi deta h or galat cheeze bol k usko demotivate krte h main kya Karu kaise Aapne bachee k Ander confident Lau ???

Accepted Answer

Hello ma’am It would be better for you to consult a child counsellor one because they can take out all the feelings and emotions out of your child whatever is troubling your child and slowly gradually they will tell you how do you need to deal with your child’s behaviour how to make your child confident and how to do other things so it would be best for you to right now consult a child counsellor and if needed to consult a child psychologist also