#asktheexperts My first born is almost 5 years old,after my second child is born,my first born become very aggressive ,he sttoped listening to me and started doing everything i asked him not to do...Out of frustration i often yell at him which i regret alot but his behaviour is getting worse day by day ..what should I do???

A. CF to understand it is a basic child psychology the older one is probably feeling insecure and jealous of the younger one because you’re spending more time with their child pampering the child nurturing the child so the older one is feeling left out instead of yelling and shouting at the child please try and understand the feelings and emotions of the child try to connect with your child and slowly if you spend more time calm your child try to strike a balance between both the kids your child is going to change back to normal as it previously it was but you will have to make a lot of effort for that and you have to have a lot of patience Write Your Answer Here