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hello doctor greetings for the day am a mother of two girl child...my elder daughter was beating,biting, not only one tym so many times we are facing it ....she is hurting her little sister..if we ask why you are doing she is telling that am not suppose to do it but am doing...am worrying about my child behaviour..need to check with the doctor...help me out of this

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What is the age of the younger child that you have not mentioned as sometimes what happens is when the older one is not prepared for the younger sibling and then they see that the younger one is getting too much attention so they start putting the child they start to behave in a very bad way so that you pay attention to the older learn to strike a balance between two kids you have to talk to your older one and I think that’s the only reason what I’m suggesting also try to spend more of quantity with the older one

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behaviour in small children changes from time to time. it is very important to give more time to the child and play with the child and this will help you in understanding why the child is having different behaviour which you are not expecting. many times rude behaviour for irritability is manifestation when the child is not able to express what he wants so that's spending more time witxh the child is important. you can take help of clinical psychologist. also sometimes xbehaviour changes can be due to nutritional deficiency so you'll have to rule out that also. it is very important to totally stop tv mobile and laptop if it is going on .

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So what I’m saying is correct you did you need to change your behaviour towards your child and prepare your child for the sibling and you have to tell your child you are the most important child to us but as younger one needs more attention right now so we give more attention but we’ll try to balance it out you have to do it if you don’t want your child to be more aggressive and you do not want your child to misbehave father

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7months old