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My child is very sensitive.He can not handle my scold. how can I make him understand that if you do mistakes or something wrong ,then you should be punished or scolded.

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My child is very sensitive.He can not handle my scold. how can I make him understand that if you do mistakes or something wrong ,then you should be punished or scolded.

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It’s a basic human nature that when we cannot take out of frustration and anger on the right person it just comes out on the child and it has been happening traditionally into India bloodstream you know our parents also used to do the same thing but now you teach your child one time that whenever you say I am listening you have to give me some time to respond I will do your work you don’t have to keep repeating it slowly when you do it and you start responding well with patience okay I have heard you one time I’m going to do it just give me sometime slowly the child will understand I hope it works for you. Good luck

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But why do you have to punish or scold your child that’s what I’m not understanding if your child has done wrong or if it is a mistake you can always have patience and tell your child that this is not writing that you have done this is other way to do it or we should not do it you have to understand and select the right method of parenting for your child whether you just want to scream and shout and punish your child or you want to make your child understand pros and cons of a situation of thing by having patience this way your bond is going to be much more stronger your child will be more confident in sharing things with you will not be hesitant because then you are going to give a response positively not react to a situation so understand the difference between two things and then you decide how do you want to take this matter further

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Yes ,I think this is a good way.Thank you for answering my question.
There is one more question that I want to ask you.
Sometime it happens that my mood is not good due to some other reasons and at that time my child say something to do for him or may be he continue say the same thing….i feel some irritation and again I scold him or sometime I slap him also.It is not good I know ,but I can’t controled on myself.What is a good way to deal with it,can you please help me.

#asktheexpert My child is very sensitive.He can not handle my scold. how can I make him understand that if you do mistakes or something wrong ,then you should be punished or scolded.