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my kid was 4 yr old ,he didn't listen to parents, he wants what he thinks should happen,and also cries for each and everything, if we say ok tell me what happened means he will cry but didn't tell what's happening
dono how to handle him

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hai
my kid was 4 yr old ,he didn't listen to parents, he wants what he thinks should happen,and also cries for each and everything, if we say ok tell me what happened means he will cry but didn't tell what's happening 
dono how to handle him

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at this is it is very important to talk regularly with the child and give more time to the child and gain confidence of the child then only you will be able to change the behaviour of the child and you can take help of any psychological counsellor

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Children having tantrums might cry or scream, become aggressive or run away.For young children, tantrums happen when they have trouble with ‘big’ feelings.Older children might have tantrums because they’re still learning to self-regulate.Reduce tantrums by tuning in to children and helping them talk about feelings.Behaviour strategies like consequences can help children aged 3-4 years and older.Reduce stress. Tired, hungry and overstimulated children are more likely to experience tantrums.Tune in to your child’s feelings. If you’re aware of your child’s feelings, you might be able to sense when big feelings are on the way. You can talk about what’s going on and help your child manage difficult feelings. You might also be able to distract your child.Identify tantrum triggers. For example, your child might have tantrums when you’re shopping. You might be able to plan for this situation or change the environment to avoid tantrums. For example, it might help to go shopping after your child has had a nap and a snack.Talk about emotions with your child. When your child struggles with a strong feeling, encourage your child to name the feeling and what caused it. For example, ‘Did you throw your toy because you were cross that it wasn’t working? What else could you have done?’

#AskTheExpert hai my kid was 4 yr old ,he didn't listen to parents, he wants what he thinks should happen,and also cries for each and everything, if we say ok tell me what happened means he will cry but didn't tell what's happening dono how to handle him