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Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!

Chubby cheeks, dimple chin, rosy lips, Teeth within, curly hair, very fair, eyes are blue ! Indians are obsessed with fair skin and girls are 'meant' to be beautiful! Express your opinion on how you want to redefine beauty for your daughter or future daughter-in-law. Share stories where you have been /seen girls getting remarks for having darker skin.

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Varsha Singh Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

colour doesn't matter. how she feels her self it's important and it's possible by the help of parents.

Amrita Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

your daughter is beautiful. 🤩

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Abdul Rawoof Father of 3 children 6 years ago

I dnt think it does nt matter tht our daughter is fair or nt..bt people r looking only the visible beauty means jst hw she looks..is she fair, charming etc..nt inside beauty means hw intelligent,smart, cute etc..kids are very innocent.they dnt knw that she is fair or nt? so Plz I request every body in front of any kid dnt discuss or describe hw she looks..it's nt their fault n this the creation of God. .so dnt think like ths

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adira sami Mom of a 8 yr 6 m old girl 6 years ago

Beauty thing of joy forever by John Keats, beauty is defined by ur manners how u communicate with ur surroundings people should love to talk with you.

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swetha Mom of 5 children 6 years ago

beauty catches attention.. but character catches your heart

Jaspreet Kaur Expecting Mom due in 3 months 6 years ago

skin tone should not be matter of importance but here in our society people do..they just look the external beauty not the eternal one... why to go far , I used to get some these types of comments for my dark skin tone which was a big reason which made my nature introvert,shy.. people do not think what they are doing by these small discrimination on basis of colour , but this affects a lot on mental growth of a child...each and every person is beautiful in some of any field... we should teach our new generation to respect each and everyone without any bias...

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pranavi Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to mounika

beauty means not the skin colour , beauty means beautiful heart.skin tone does not matter .

now a days .people giving much importance to the colour...nt for the internal beauty of ababy..dey rather compare with another born child to otherchild.it effects the baby further life..so plz dnt compare child..with someone it surely effects ur baby..

amitachourey Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

color of skin doesn't matter every child in the word is special for there parents .
and now a day kaam or sanskaaro se pata chalta h ki person kaisa h color se n