Discussion about Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!

Rubina S Pissay Mom of a 7 yr 4 m old girl 7 years ago

Beauty should be in heart and mind not in having fair skin coz people are way more beautiful from heart not face also beauty only matters to others not to the parents so leave this damn thing with others bcoz only you know how beautiful your child is to you n how much you love your child.

Nehal Mom of a 8 yr 11 m old boy 7 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

So sweet baby, Appearance and complextion is not in our hand. Babies are the form of god (little angels) who can make any one smile.
Pooja u r blessed to have a baby no matter if any one shows interest or not.

We should not forget that we worship goddess kali.

mounika Mom of a 7 yr 11 m old girl 7 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

beautiful baby..

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Pallavi Mom of a 8 yr 3 m old girl 7 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

Dear pooja ,
I agree with u, skin colour doesn’t matter . Your baby is so cute and she will definitely reach great heights in life with ur guidance . Average Indian society is obsessed with fairer skin, u can’t change them.but I can move ahead by ignoring them. All the best for being a wonderful caring mom with great thoughts

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Nikita 0 Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

It doesn’t matter me..I think beauty should in the heart not on the face..if u r beautiful from ur heart than everyone loves u..

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mounika Mom of a 7 yr 11 m old girl 7 years ago

beauty means not the skin colour , beauty means beautiful heart.skin tone does not matter .

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Pallavi Mom of a 8 yr 3 m old girl 7 years ago

It’s truly said” beauty lies in the eyes of beholder”. So why to bother about those who go for fairer skin. It makes our work easier to differentiate between the genuine appreciators and narrow thinkers. True beauty comes from within which is reflected in our manners, thoughts, love and kindness. The outlook to have positive attitude and helping nature makes ur soul beautiful and always makes u follow the path of humanity.

Shakti pitariya Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to mounika

beautiful baby..

every girl is beautiful when they have loving parents.so don't worry about the colour of your daughter coz she have her own identity ..colour doesn't matter.. those who think colour is everything they shows their narrow mind and illiteracy.

Balram batra Father of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to Nikita 0

It doesn’t matter me..I think beauty should in the heart not on the face..if u r beautiful from ur heart than everyone loves u..

I think u should think practically about ur baby..

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pragna Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

it doesn't matter.