As parents, we want to make our children’s lives as simple, pleasant and secure as possible. So we go out of our way to provide, protect and accommodate them. Do you feel we are being over-protective about our child? Do you spot any difference between how parenting today is different from parenting earlier.Share your views in the comment section.
with time everything changes, when I was kid, my mom usually busy with daily household work, so i didn\'t get too much time to learn new things at home.
but when I became a mom, I give my most of the time to my baby, sometimes I compromise wid my work also.
today in age of 2year, my baby learnt most of the nursery rhymes, numbers, colors, alphabet, animals, vegetables and fruits name... and she enjoy to learn all these things.
with time everything changes, when I was kid, my mom usually busy with daily household work, so i didn't get too much time to learn new things at home.
but when I became a mom, I give my most of the time to my baby, sometimes I compromise wid my work also.
today in age of 2year, my baby learnt most of the nursery rhymes, numbers, colors, alphabet, animals, vegetables and fruits name... and she enjoy to learn all these things.
yes today\'s parenting is absolutely different from earlier. As per me as a new mom I wanted my baby to be smart enough and I try to teach him very interestingly, while earlier parents use to focus on other daily work more than their children and they were not even worried about upbringing of child bcos the families earlier were joint family where children used to learn by themselves looking to their siblings. But now in the neutral family children don\'t have any reference likes siblings and other members from whom they can learn well so it\'s the need for today\'s parents to teach their children right from small things to make their own decisions. We being a today\'s parents are not wrong in parenting as everyone says we are overprotective, we are not overprotective we just try to teach our children in a different way and I think it\'s the need of today\'s generation bcos its a digital world and our children will use mobiles, laptops etc. but as a parent we need to restrict the time to use the devices and make our children to play with other things or else children won\'t get physically strong.
yes today's parenting is absolutely different from earlier. As per me as a new mom I wanted my baby to be smart enough and I try to teach him very interestingly, while earlier parents use to focus on other daily work more than their children and they were not even worried about upbringing of child bcos the families earlier were joint family where children used to learn by themselves looking to their siblings. But now in the neutral family children don't have any reference likes siblings and other members from whom they can learn well so it's the need for today's parents to teach their children right from small things to make their own decisions. We being a today's parents are not wrong in parenting as everyone says we are overprotective, we are not overprotective we just try to teach our children in a different way and I think it's the need of today's generation bcos its a digital world and our children will use mobiles, laptops etc. but as a parent we need to restrict the time to use the devices and make our children to play with other things or else children won't get physically strong.
when she start throwing tantrums don\'t give her what she demands, just keep urself cool , smile and hold her in ur arms.make her sit and talk to her..nything that can divert her attention...don\'t get angry or don\'t scold her..keep talking and she will be fine soon..bt no matter what don\'t fullfil her demand...this is a tried and tested way...my girl is 3 and it is working fine with her...I can c an improvement in her
hi everyone meri beti 2 saal ki hai or wo ziddi hoti jarahi hai like usne ager kuch manga hai to wo foran miljae otherwise aas paas rakhi hui cheezein phekne lagti hai or roti hai. jab wo cheez usko dedo to bhi kuch minutes lagte hain usko normal hone mein. plz koi suggest kere k aesi situation mein baby ko kese handle kere
when she start throwing tantrums don't give her what she demands, just keep urself cool , smile and hold her in ur arms.make her sit and talk to her..nything that can divert her attention...don't get angry or don't scold her..keep talking and she will be fine soon..bt no matter what don't fullfil her demand...this is a tried and tested way...my girl is 3 and it is working fine with her...I can c an improvement in her
Pampering.. I wouldn\'t say so..
to pen it out the right way
90\'s
too many kids
learned sharing and caring on own
sand was their toy, ground their place
guests were can come anytime.. and kids used to get happy
everything they need they had to work hard for it
kids didn\'t knew the value of money
streets were safe
20\'s
one or two kids mostly
have to be thought sharing and caring
sand is part of studies and mobile is the toy, and their bed their place
guests come rarely and why they come is the child\'s worry
whatever is their need is been fulfilled before they could even think of it
kids value money and want as pocket money
streets. even house don\'t seem safe
now since all of this being a factor pampering won\'t be the right thing to say.. kid those days didn\'t need attention they had their siblings many siblings to share with or speak out their heart with.. but kids these days inorder to speak out their heart with us need to be assured we are their friends and Wil take whatever you say in a positive note. the fear of the child falling into wrong company is what creates a worrisome parent.. they don\'t pamper they just try to make sure they teach them what they have learnt.. they just try to make sure the child knows their love and affection for them. they just want to guide the child and assure themselves they are fulfilling the child\'s needs..
it is not pampering it\'s just an insecure parent wanting the good for their child.. some succeed some don\'t.. some can\'t control their insecurities try to keep their child for themselves and to secure them put them in a cocoon and make it difficult for the child at later stage.. and in scenarios the child learning a parent\'s insecurities take advantage of it..
Pampering.. I wouldn't say so..
to pen it out the right way
90's
too many kids
learned sharing and caring on own
sand was their toy, ground their place
guests were can come anytime.. and kids used to get happy
everything they need they had to work hard for it
kids didn't knew the value of money
streets were safe
20's
one or two kids mostly
have to be thought sharing and caring
sand is part of studies and mobile is the toy, and their bed their place
guests come rarely and why they come is the child's worry
whatever is their need is been fulfilled before they could even think of it
kids value money and want as pocket money
streets. even house don't seem safe
now since all of this being a factor pampering won't be the right thing to say.. kid those days didn't need attention they had their siblings many siblings to share with or speak out their heart with.. but kids these days inorder to speak out their heart with us need to be assured we are their friends and Wil take whatever you say in a positive note. the fear of the child falling into wrong company is what creates a worrisome parent.. they don't pamper they just try to make sure they teach them what they have learnt.. they just try to make sure the child knows their love and affection for them. they just want to guide the child and assure themselves they are fulfilling the child's needs..
it is not pampering it's just an insecure parent wanting the good for their child.. some succeed some don't.. some can't control their insecurities try to keep their child for themselves and to secure them put them in a cocoon and make it difficult for the child at later stage.. and in scenarios the child learning a parent's insecurities take advantage of it..
but when I became a mom, I give my most of the time to my baby, sometimes I compromise wid my work also.
today in age of 2year, my baby learnt most of the nursery rhymes, numbers, colors, alphabet, animals, vegetables and fruits name... and she enjoy to learn all these things.
to pen it out the right way
90's
too many kids
learned sharing and caring on own
sand was their toy, ground their place
guests were can come anytime.. and kids used to get happy
everything they need they had to work hard for it
kids didn't knew the value of money
streets were safe
20's
one or two kids mostly
have to be thought sharing and caring
sand is part of studies and mobile is the toy, and their bed their place
guests come rarely and why they come is the child's worry
whatever is their need is been fulfilled before they could even think of it
kids value money and want as pocket money
streets. even house don't seem safe
now since all of this being a factor pampering won't be the right thing to say.. kid those days didn't need attention they had their siblings many siblings to share with or speak out their heart with.. but kids these days inorder to speak out their heart with us need to be assured we are their friends and Wil take whatever you say in a positive note. the fear of the child falling into wrong company is what creates a worrisome parent.. they don't pamper they just try to make sure they teach them what they have learnt.. they just try to make sure the child knows their love and affection for them. they just want to guide the child and assure themselves they are fulfilling the child's needs..
it is not pampering it's just an insecure parent wanting the good for their child.. some succeed some don't.. some can't control their insecurities try to keep their child for themselves and to secure them put them in a cocoon and make it difficult for the child at later stage.. and in scenarios the child learning a parent's insecurities take advantage of it..
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