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Are we Over-Pampering our babies?

Niroj Nalinee Mohapatra Mom of a 9 yr 4 m old boy 6 years ago
yes different cause earlier age kids were calm n were obeying their parents n now a days kids are more active n clever n knows everything
tjthenu@gmail.com Mom of 5 children 6 years ago
Yes... We are taking everything serious and thinking too many things into mind... Not taking as simple... This is bcos many bad things happening around us and hearing too many news...
Archana Mom of a 9 yr 2 m old boy 6 years ago
Parents especially mothers now do more multitasking then our mothers did..today's mothers take care of home,job ,school, competitions, extra circular activities n lot more. Not that our mothers did less.
I don't pamper my child. when he grows he will have to learn to accept failures n will have to work hard n struggle. I want him to be strong.
Not all parents pamper their child.
vandana tripathi Guardian of 2 children 6 years ago
I dont know obout others but me and my hubby is not over pampering parents.We do love ,care ,pamper our child always try to make her understand what is right or wrong
fathima Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
i lost one menber already thats why i am not pampering my baby
Ashima Verma Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
true, there's a huge difference between parenting today n parenting earlier because of different atmosphere like unsafe surroundings and also these days one or two kids are there not 8-10 like earlier times...
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Sunita Vijay Thakur 6 years ago
I try not to over pamper so I try to think how I was brought up when correction is needed I correct them when I hv to pamper I do pamper them and love them
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Sadhana Shravan Mom of 4 children 6 years ago
yes... we are pampering our children too much. It should be liberty with authority... but these days there parents are not strict with the children. Children know to get things done very easily these days. I feel we a s parents should.learn to say a no to our children from the beginning itself.
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Pushpa Rajput Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
Over pampering I don’t think this is the right word to say because love for baby can’t be “over” but yes today we all are suffering with single child syndrome. This is my personal feeling that many of us are choosing single child policy which automatically makes our all thing centralised & centre becomes our baby. No doubts that parents love towards child could not be biased be it a single child or more but things automatically changes. When we have more children we tries our best to settle babies with themselves which motivate babies to stay at their own along with many other adjustments influencing their behaviour as well as characters & save us to become over pampered parents.
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Shivani Mom of a 7 yr 5 m old girl 6 years ago
It's a very much valid point that we r over protecting or pampering our child now a days. and there is huge difference between parenting today n earlier, reason behind is we dint have so much options to play to eat so much options to pemper. We used to play outdoor games & that made us happy . now children needs gadget video games, mobile even parents themselves offer these things to their child which should not. Our mom used to prepare food all the time at home n we enjoyed even birthday parties celebrated at home. Now parents keep many options to eat in front of baby which includes home made food as well as supplement or junk food so kids feel over pempered & sometimes they prefer supplement only.
I still remember we used to play in rain n mud , today parents don't allow kids for it bcz they scare that kids could have cold in rain or infection from mud.
so according to me these r some differences of parenting today n earlier.
If we talk about pampering, yes parents do pemper their kids alot as they have options they have money so they do. Earlier people have 3 4 kids in family nw they have 1 or 2 so it's matter a lot. They make feel their child as he or she is prince or princess😊 & pampering is really important for them too. It makes bond strong between parents n kid & also kids become more confident but as every coins have 2 sides we should do it in little bit under the limit . yes it's little difficult bt it's better for children to make them strong in near future😊

All d best parents👍👍👍enjoy parenthood
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