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Does having a baby strengthen your relationship?

I've heard before that having a baby can either make or break your relationship.Things between partner does not remain same.Either frastration fill the space or bonding between them grows more
stronger than before.Dear Moms share with us your small story how your relationship with your husband grew after having a baby.

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kavitha Mom of 12 children 6 years ago

My relationship is more stronger once I found positive of my baby.

Neelam Bhagwani Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old boy 6 years ago

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I am a new mom of 10 months old baby boy.During my pregnancy and till after the birth of my son everything was normal.But when my son was about 4 months old I found out that my husband was already fix himself into another relationship despite me being full devotion towards his needs everything was so done with me.Now I am a single mother and I am happy to witness every cute moments of my son.Sometimes it hurt that he could not get the love and attention of his father but life has to go on.I gave him my full time and he is the beat of my heart now.

God bless

Ankita A Kumar Mom of 5 children 6 years ago

why elder people say not to use phone after delivering a baby.. if we use what are the disadvantages of that

Sweta Agarwal Mom of a 6 yr 7 m old boy 6 years ago

mine is completely negative. I feel my husband doesn't understand me. I feel alone at times. sometimes I get frustrated out of calming baby or found same thing and then too baby is crancky. so I feel there should be someone who can support me. but instead he starts arguing and blames me for everything. weekends I want him with me but he prefers going out with friends or calling at home. but no separate time for me. if he helps me calming baby at times , he keeps on telling he has done me favour as if it's my job and he did it. now my body is not in good shape , also I can't dress-up so well, he stopped looking at me. he doesnot value me. indirectly he insulted me in front of his friends. I feel very bad. but few days this happens and will be alright later. but the way things going I am concerned. :(

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Arti Mom of a 7 yr 4 m old boy 6 years ago

yes

Rozy Agarwal Guardian of a 6 yr 5 m old boy 6 years ago

It's really true after having a baby our relationship gets stronger...as we discuss a lots of things , we talk a lot ....we discuss more about our baby then ourselves ...

But dats true our bonding has become strong...and love him a lot..( my hubby) 😘😘😘

Lalitha Ramji Mom of 5 children 6 years ago

Actually we fight for very silly things and it will get solved after some time. But now I don't have time to fight as i am very busy looking after her and he is busy playing with her.

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sadhana Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

yes... off course....

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nandita Mom of a 10 yr 9 m old girl 6 years ago

Relationship with hubby greatly changed. Before baby, we spent a lot of time with each other, but after my girl, he doesn't look towards me, thiugh i can manage and extract some time from my business to spend some time with him. But, he doesn't have interest on me.

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uwais Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

allhumduilah yes..I'm mother of two lovely boys..one is 4yrs and the other one is 6months..my husband never complain any me not giving him time infact he says they need more attention and he takes out time for them as well.our kids keep us engaged n we share day to day things like wats happening in kids school..baby's milestone and whats new in netflix. we know for couple of years we can't give much time to each other as kids grow we will have much time for each other.... communication is alway better.sometime we don't get time to talk so we chat on what's app.

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