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Does having a baby strengthen your relationship?

I've heard before that having a baby can either make or break your relationship.Things between partner does not remain same.Either frastration fill the space or bonding between them grows more
stronger than before.Dear Moms share with us your small story how your relationship with your husband grew after having a baby.

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Neenu Guardian of 2 children 6 years ago

alhamdulilah.yes

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Kavitha Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

the bonding is really quiet different when compared to before and after baby.. here the responsibility is the key role which plays between the parents.. who adopt it will hv the strong bond and coming to mine after baby we r more interested to be family we always care of our kids and we also make time for us the way my husband treated me after the delivery makes me he's the only one who cares for me in the world there I think my relationship bonded very strongly and I really blessed to be with him @kavithashabarish❤️

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Community User Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

Yeah we feel happy to have baby in our life but what the thing is . my husband working in mahabubnagar and I’m staying in hyd with my uncle Nd aunt monthly once he will be coming to see us we both are feeling so alone what I feel is he should be with us and share our feelings . I have never seen the husband leaving far away missing his child and wife

Nisha Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Yes.....alot

Vandana Acharya Mom of a 7 yr 7 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to Neelima Barapatre

maine almost bahut same comments padhe..or mostly positive...bs ek negative comment mila.. i was thinking mere sath aisa nhi hua..q..?? evn mere sath to baby k bad itna jhagda hua h husbad k sath mera..divorce tk pahuch gye hum log.. mera husband muje kuch support nhi krta naa ghr k kisi kaam me naa bahar k..bache ko le k koi possessiveness nhi h unme...abi recently ki baat h..mere feed se pet nhi bhar ra tha to formula milk bnane bola wo nhi uthe...or dur ja k so k..lekin uth k bnane nhi gye..mai offc, ghr, baby sb akele handle krti hu..or to husband baby ko b sasural chhodne ko kahte h..i fight for that..& said cleraly ki legally chali jaungi pr bacha nhi dungi..maine kai br pyar se b smjhaya h humari jimmedari h ye bacha humare parents ki nhi..mera sasural pass nhi h..mai delhi hu job k chalte or sasural Jamshedpur Jharkhand h..

I m so sorry to hear this. I also face such problems sometimes. But it is ok because I m not working now. But for a working women if husband is not sharing responsibility, it is very difficult.
One thing that I realized in my relationship was I wasn't giving any time to my husband. Even wen I talked to him I only talked about the baby. Intimacy is very important. Most men understand when u shower them with love and extra care. Sometimes I think he doesn't do all this for me so why shud I, but then I feel that if I also don't do then there will be nothing left in this relationship.
If possible pls try to spend some alone time with him. Try to look happy and cheerful inspite of how tired and exhausted you are. All these small things can bring major change in relationship. I am trying to do it and I have seen changes. pls try. All the best.

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Sunera Imran Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

yes always

anjali devarapalli Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

make our relationship very strong

ManjunathanManjula Father of a 7 yr 7 m old boy 6 years ago

Dear All,

All is Well 😀

All shared posts say Life is good and Very bad. My wishes for all, bcoz people having life with husband Njoy and rest Bejoice (just fun).

Never say I am alone and I njoy my life after leave my husband or leave my wife. Husbands role for money and Wife role for Blessings and needful. All needs are to run their life and rest of life.

Life is short and There are Better options( Man or Lady) every time as 1 mark questions. But sometimes No options like Detailed essay. Turn to change impossible into Possible or Break and live and let live the life. Babies are Born legend and destroy their Dreams and Motivation.

Sweta Agarwal Mom of a 6 yr 11 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Neelam Bhagwani

Don't worry.. Time will heal everything. Stay positive n keep smiling with baby

yup .. no option except waiting for the good time .. trying to be positive

Neelam Bhagwani Mom of a 8 yr old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Sweta Agarwal

mine is completely negative. I feel my husband doesn't understand me. I feel alone at times. sometimes I get frustrated out of calming baby or found same thing and then too baby is crancky. so I feel there should be someone who can support me. but instead he starts arguing and blames me for everything. weekends I want him with me but he prefers going out with friends or calling at home. but no separate time for me. if he helps me calming baby at times , he keeps on telling he has done me favour as if it's my job and he did it. now my body is not in good shape , also I can't dress-up so well, he stopped looking at me. he doesnot value me. indirectly he insulted me in front of his friends. I feel very bad. but few days this happens and will be alright later. but the way things going I am concerned. :(

Don't worry.. Time will heal everything. Stay positive n keep smiling with baby

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