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Is Fair Only Lovely?

Chubby cheeks, dimple chin, rosy lips, Teeth within, curly hair, VERY FAIR, eyes are blue!This used to be the Fantasy of Families if they had a thought of daughters to be born! Hey Parents! Do you feel over the years this thought has changed? Mother-in-Law's now don't suggest to drink KESAR Ka DOODH for Fair Girl or Aunty's don't advice to avoid eating black things during Pregnancy! Or else you feel things will never change in our society?How was your experience?

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anuradha 0 Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

No actually it is not but any society u can see or feel that only fair girl or baby will love by there parents and society as well parents also desire for a fair baby either it is boy or girl things are changed today mother in law never tell what to for fair baby but still she or would be mother father they fair baby but it doesn’t mean that if the baby is black parent don’t love there child they love but wants a fair baby

Akki Akila Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

i blessed with baby girl...
when she came to our life ...
my whole family is full happy...
they thought thy they got a angel in there life ...my mom n dad ,my husband n my brother's are feeling like they got a dimond in there life...
they don't she her fair .. they see they got a laxmi goddess ..
in this generation people changed a lot ..
everyone seeing is girl .. waiting for baby girl..
not based on color r cute..
every child is there angels ..thats it no matter about the color n fair n anything...

Shraddha Visariya Mom of a 5 yr 5 m old boy 5 years ago

Honestly, nothing has changed much. I have a baby boy still people are worried about his complexion and facial features.

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Lata sharma Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

No....every child is special for their parents...so I dn think so that it does matter .....His or her skin colour or hair these things are just nothing to me and I must say I dn think today's parents believe on all these thing. society has changed a lot...

Varsha Rathod Father of 2 children 5 years ago

always smileing like : Having a baby girl is such a joyous event. A baby girl is such a miracle. Baby girls arrive into our life and bring sunshine and smiles for years to come

Priyanka Yogesh Alim Mom of a 6 yr 9 m old boy 5 years ago

iam wheatish and my husband wanted a baby girl like me but we blessed with a naughty babyBoy...we always admire a wheatish baby girl as our second child.We think that not Fair only lovely.

Tuba zehra Mom of 5 children 5 years ago

I have a daughter and my family and husband love her very much

Deepika Deepak Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

I have a daughter nd my family doesn't say these words

Prerna Gupta Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

The mindset of the society is and will more or less be the same.My mother in law prevented me from eating jamuns during my pregnancy and when I came to know the reason I burst into fits of laughter. In our country when a girl child is born the first reaction we receive from our relatives is ' ladki hui...par rang to saaf hai'that atleast serves as a consoling factor for the havoc ridden mother who is still adjusting post birth. However things are very different for the parents of current scenario not only are we learning to accept ourselves with our skin colors but create equal amount of confidence in our children to do the same.My daughter has exceptionally beautiful eyes, when she was born and laid next to me the only thing that struck me was the amount of love her eyes were emanating for me. Though she might not be a fair and blue eyed barbie yet she's a reflection of the boundless love her parents had to have her in their lives. If" fair" is lovely then better bleach yourself before planning a pregnancy.

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