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Is Fair Only Lovely?

Chubby cheeks, dimple chin, rosy lips, Teeth within, curly hair, VERY FAIR, eyes are blue!This used to be the Fantasy of Families if they had a thought of daughters to be born! Hey Parents! Do you feel over the years this thought has changed? Mother-in-Law's now don't suggest to drink KESAR Ka DOODH for Fair Girl or Aunty's don't advice to avoid eating black things during Pregnancy! Or else you feel things will never change in our society?How was your experience?

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Nikhar Bnsal Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

yes , firstly every old person in your family will notice seeing your tumy baby bump lower or upwards to decide baby is girl or boy, secondly, having lots of sweet , sour or bitter taste ,thirdly body going fat or normal 🙂 but it doesn't matter .

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Nikhar Bnsal Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

Baby is God gift to every parents and families . so colour and other things doesn't matter .

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Janani Mom of a 6 yr 1 m old girl 6 years ago

My experience on this during pregnancy was not much of a trouble as I chose to stay at my home with my husband. Hence minimum pressure from parents and in-laws. But now with my girl baby in hand (45 days) my parents want her to be fair, round, chubby! They blame me saying she is not getting fat. They never understand the fact that her weight is increasing gradually, she is taller than average, her output is good and she is healthy. So I feel things haven't changed as we expect.

Hali Gagan Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

our thoughts have been changed....now a days as many people are having problems while conceiving babes...i think we should thank god that we r blessed no matter its black or fair baby...is more imp to enjoy those movements...instead of wasting tym on thinking abt fair baby....enjoy the god gift before

shaista palkar Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

charm come from intelligence

Kashmira Chitalia Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

More Family's are accepting the darker shades. good to see the revolution

Community User 6 years ago

Fair skin is beautiful to look at but 99.9% of fair skin people have skeletons hidden in the cupboards.

Deeksha Thakral Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Not at all.. The people following this concept should change their mind.. Fair skin is not important.. Heart should be fair and not skin..

Ritu Yadav Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

Hello everyone I am Ritu Yadav . I have one child baby girl when she came my life my life is changed and I am so happy and my baby colour is so fair and his lips are so thin and rosy lips and eyes are black shine . I thik colour are not effect now a days

Satyashree pawar Mom of a 6 yr 3 m old girl 6 years ago

true that...Indians are very possesive with fair skin and sharp nose..I mean give me a break..how my baby's skin tone will decide her future...
Every skintone is beautiful in their own way..
I totally disagree the "FAIR SKIN" concept..

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