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Is Fair Only Lovely?

v Nikhila Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
I don't think only fair is lovely as every child is lovely as they are children and their parents star kids.
Sonal Ranka Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
there are still mny families who followbthis but it shud nt be .
sunita kanyal Mom of a 6 yr 6 m old girl 5 years ago
fair is not lovely all the time. it's is the society who makes u feel things about complexion of baby. as a mother no one would differentiate her love in terms of complexion.my daughter s fair when she was born she had a little darker complexion but I never thought of complexion . the love doesn change and neither I care about what people say.
Shivange Awasthi Mom of a 6 yr old boy 5 years ago
A big No. This new generation should not have to grow up in the age old body complextion inferiorities. Every color is beautiful and as parents we have to make them better than us. Color difference is man made and it should end here.
Ayesha Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
I think so..... color doesn’t matter for their parents but ....for Aunty’s and relatives it matters a lot still in this century also they r giving so many advices to drink this or that.......Anyhow every child is a god gifted for their parents coz nowadays many couples are facing so many problems during pregnancy.so whether the baby s with fair skin r dark skin a good parents love them with their heart not from mind r not for their color
MJ Sadiq Guardian of a 5 yr 5 m old girl 5 years ago
look poore ko o look look looki k ok
rupak jha Father of 3 children 5 years ago
yes obviously fair colour add an excitement in the happiness when you see yr child..but ultimately it's yr child's innocent activities which attracts more.if yr child is joyful no matters which skin colour she or he have...but yes mother or mother in law still emphasize on dos n don'ts during pregnancy which makes yr foetus fairer...this never gonna change..
Priyanka Jai Kumar Mom of 4 children 5 years ago
Being a dark skin women, I surely had to face lot of troubles. Comments from my relatives who are women n are dark. Weird.

But my dad use to joke about it saying...whatsoever you do you will always be like either of your parents. They always wanted me and my siblings to be healthy and I think that's more important than anything else.

However TV commercials are also changing...no longer Fair Skin stuff...now it's all about flawless skin...brighter n clearer..I wish n think this will continue and when our kids grow up..all they have to be worried is about typical skin issues everyone have. They will not end up like us checking shade card on fairness cream tubes to see if it changed...
Safia Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
While I was pregnant Aunty used to tell me to eat more oranges and milk coconut water because they if I'll eat such kind of fruits and milk then baby will we fair still color complex is there in out society
lipima barik Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
ofcourse some of in our society think about the colour complex of the baby child...and also m facing this issue..As my both child's are not fair...specially my daughter..but m proud of her.. so understanding ..God gifted both of my child....
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