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Boy V/S Girl

GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting
Boy V/S Girl
A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?
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Marlyn Antao Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
In reply to Roshani kadam
exactly anchal.i agree with you.i have girl child and for second chance i am expecting boy if i will have girl again then i will feel bad for few days then after that i will enjoy it ..we feel bad for only few days after that we accept everything. but thier is one more thing ,we as parent want girl and boy bcoz we want our kid to get sister and brother.i think it is very common that everyone expecting boy and girl both.
true....
silky Mom of 4 children 5 years ago
for me
i like boys ..the reason is social rituals for girls
actually boy girls sbke k liye same ho agar hum apne rituals Or bounding girls k liye b khatm kr de jese boys ki freedom girls se jada hoti h agar girls b free ho usi tarah to.. koi b baby girls k janam lene pr parshan no hoga
some reasons jiski vajah se mai khud apne baby boy hone pr jada happy hu
1. sbse pahla dar mughe ye tha girls baby hui to mai use shadi k baad khud se dur kese krungi
2. vo nye ghr me ja kr kese rhegi use bhut problem face krni pd skti h
3. uski teenage kese handle krungi society use kuch alag hi rule regulation me bound kr degi
Or b.. bhut reason h
DrSheetal Mom of a 6 yr 11 m old girl 5 years ago
nope
Shaista Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
no.....gender doesn't matter...we have 3 girls ...and I had my tubal ligation surgery done...
we just wanted 3 kids and all three girls are angel for us ....we are a happy family....and I think girl or boy both are same both are just innocent babies...... it depends on how we treat them...... many people who have desire of having a boy and putting pressure on women should change their thinking...this is 2020 modren and improved independent India .....
and modren India says beti badaoo beti padoo...
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Bhoomita Parbadia 5 years ago
It doesn’t matter if it is Boy Or Girl..... We Have Twins Boy & Girl Both of them we bless & very Happy to Have both of Them ...
Rekha nagar Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
In reply to Sruthy
why don't we change this first and talk about gender differences later? who said dolls are only for girls
yes..I agreed
Sruthy Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
why don't we change this first and talk about gender differences later? who said dolls are only for girls
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Roshani kadam Mom of 4 children 5 years ago
In reply to Aanchal
If it’s ur first child then boy or girl doesn’t matter. The baby must b health. But if it’s your second child , this thought really matters. Having a boy or girl after a boy, can b accepted. Having a boy after a girl, we feel thankful to god. But if there is a girl after girl, it’s really very hard to accept. No matter how modern you are , how modern your thoughts are, your family looks incompleted.
exactly anchal.i agree with you.i have girl child and for second chance i am expecting boy if i will have girl again then i will feel bad for few days then after that i will enjoy it ..we feel bad for only few days after that we accept everything. but thier is one more thing ,we as parent want girl and boy bcoz we want our kid to get sister and brother.i think it is very common that everyone expecting boy and girl both.
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Shally Chhabra Mom of a 5 yr 6 m old boy 5 years ago
No matter boy or girl..Hmm bhi kisi ki betiya hai🥰
Rekha nagar Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
not at all
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