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Rohit gurung Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

My point of view is both r same. society has always desire of having a son. My baby is a boy. don't think this stupid thoughts. just think that God give us a beautiful creature and feel di creation God. But I must say girl is most important to have everyone. girls r understand the feelings of their momma. life is too short don't too much think for that. be happy always😊

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NivethaVinoth Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

Hi to all,
To be frank even though iam feminist I expected for a boy baby. Because I really scared of this society some may think of me to be stupid but still it's true. In day today life women are facing a lot so I don't want my baby to face that. See I had a 13 hours labour after my baby born doctors are doing the stitches but I hold nurse hand her name was Mrs Kala and asked in my mother tongue tamil (ponnu thaane poranthiruka) I gave birth to girl na... She replied yes I really had a great relief. I totally confused, I asked myself,
how u asked? U wanted only for a boy, then what is this... After 3hours I was shifted to my ward my mom gave my angel in my hand. That moment she gave me a wonderful smile which was very precious.. That was the moment I realized that, I need only boy all that blaa blaa and all only for this society but my inner heart always wanted for a girl.
Now iam writing this from my heart I really have no issues about girl or boy baby, both are precious treasure given by God they need to be protected.
When dowry system was completely abolished and women are given proper care, respect and fear free society only people mind will be change and they will accept both child are equal.. Until then some peoples in our society won't accept the gender equality
To be clear they can't change their thoughts...

Jacintha Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

Practice: In earlier days men used to go to work and women would cook and feed them. Men would sit in serious discussions but whereas women were not even allowed to come in and give an opinion. Post giving birth or even just after getting married a woman was expected to be an expert in Cooking and cleaning the house.To think in the most brightest side...May be(MAY BE) some of them thought that women are fragile to go out to work. Also the craze of Dowry and Jewels started to be the Final Icing on the cake.

Considering all this a mindset or ideology has been inserted inside the society that a woman anyway is
1.Too weak to run her family
2.Too weak to go out for work
3.Cannot talk boldly or opinionate as she has always been asked to go inside
4. We need to invest a lot for a girl....
5.A girls parent's cannot stay with her post marriage.
6.Our daughter cannot take care of us like our Son....
7.Blah Blah Blah
and since the male gender doesn't have this much of presumptions above them....a boy was/is/will always be preferred...But...but it's just half of the world that's running on this ideology....the other half have already moved forward or we can say"Started being normal"

Oh my....I've written too much...I have a boy btw 😁

thakur Trying To Conceive 5 years ago

Yes its still there in most parts of India
As for my husband and me we wanted two children and the gender didnt matter to us at all
But surrounding people guessed already that i will have a boy during my second pregnancy
I had a 4 year old daughter and someone just casually mentioned i dont have a boy yet
I got v offended and gave a lecture to my husband about this as this person was from his family
I had a boy later and husbands family was v happy but i was just ok as i knew they are happy about getting a boy I told my husband if someone ever says anything regarding gender again then you will pay for it lol
My parents dont care nor even expected me to have a second child Actually i never discussed such a personal thing with them But yes i was n still am little partial towards girl child Their love never changes with time and age

Anjolly Mom of 6 children 5 years ago

no it can't matter at all for today's generation. girl child make our society stronger than boys. matter of fact is now society is changing n everybody know d importance of equality it's only for those people who live under d thought of ancient thinking they only compare girl n boy I wish I also have second child as a girl...... may God bless me baby girl nxt tym

Anjolly Mom of 6 children 5 years ago

no it can't matter at all for today's generation. girl child make our society stronger than boys. matter of fact is now society is changing n everybody know d importance of equality it's only for those people who live under d thought of ancient thinking they only compare girl n boy I wish I also have second child as a girl...... may God bless me baby girl nxt tym

Anjolly Mom of 6 children 5 years ago

no it can't matter at all for today's generation. girl child make our society stronger than boys. matter of fact is now society is changing n everybody know d importance of equality it's only for those people who live under d thought of ancient thinking they only compare girl n boy I wish I also have second child as a girl...... may God bless me baby girl nxt tym

Mona Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In our Indian society, if mom gives a birth to baby boy then it is considered as a matter of proud and lifetime asset as a bread earner but if it’s a baby girl then it is considered as lifetime liability and she needs to prove at every stage of life.
Being a mom of a baby girl, my daughter is a precious gift n blessing of god. It’s an asset for me and her dad and she completes us. God give girl child to his beloved couple only.

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shweta verma Mom of a 7 yr 4 m old girl 5 years ago

for society it does matter but for parents no

Manasa Jyothula Mom of 4 children 5 years ago

It's a matter for society not for the mother

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