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Boy V/S Girl

JOSEPH SAJAN Guardian of 2 children 4 years ago
the reason for this preference was because of the patriarchal norms developed and still practised in many families..
it is high time that we break the gender barrier let it be to the minutest things that we do while bringing up a child..there are still so many products available which actually insist sexism in most of the kids/parents. so it is important that we as new age parents should know how to not impose these products and try not to educate these patriarchal ideas to our kids and let's hope that such kind of ideas/questions will never rise in future.
Mrs. N B S Guardian of a 4 yr 10 m old girl 4 years ago
No,gender is not matter whether it's a girl or boy both are beautiful gift of god,who will come in our life to make our society better, whatever we will do our child learn the same,unlike whatever we would say do this,do that,don't do this they never do,baby learn which he/she observe to see their parent's,both are important part of human life,they will become best human if we give proper right guidance, both are creator,both gender has their own importance,no one comparable,both has their own capabilities, strength to lead their own life the way they want it,we just play the role of guider who guide them proper what is right or wrong and give chance to decide themselves...so both gender are equally important noone replace each other...it was held in past ppl compare both of genders and created unfair gap,but now era is change all knows value of both and welcome both gender equally as a gift of god....before ppl think if a boy child born he will further take our dynasty and girl child will go another home, but now ppl aware about importance of both child,both child play vital role in their parents and family life,today parents know their girl child is independent so she manage both family where she born and new family where she will go,and boys unable to manage one family,girls give emotional support and boys do work as responsibility,after parents girl child manage their younger and manage household too,even boys do the same but somehow they would tired ,their priority always their friends first after parents but girls priority their family first than friends.both child important it depend us ,what we teach them,what we would guide them,if you give right skills you will never regret in life cuz both child would become your pride one day...we are nurture so we have to handle with care with love with use our patience and wiseness to make their character so that society feel safe and become inspiration,
Kirti Nigam Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
it doesn't matter what we get, most important thing is baby, which is the part of our body and soul....n of course d Gift of GOD..
Soumya Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
Both r equal
Sipra Roy Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
both r equal
Bushra Tabassum Mom of 3 children 4 years ago
no it doesn't matter both girl and boy both are gift of God and both are equal
Shilpa Bodele Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
girl
Shivani Pandey Mom of a 4 yr 8 m old boy 4 years ago
As a mommy to be very soon I dont have such preference ..at this point of time I just want my baby to be healthy and hearty..we are three sisters all doing good in their respective ways..and taking care of our parents at the same time..my parents never differentiated between we sisters and our brother... and result we all are successful..but coming to next question why the need to make diffrences arise is that there are n number of reasons which I have came across while looking around in our society,friends and according to viewpoint of some of my close friends also .
1) In todays time also when a baby is born we all are interested in Knowing the gender of newbie.. age-old mentality??
2) sense of security is more with boy child and less with girl child??? though in todays time crime rates are equal against both but still??
3) later dowry demands and girl child treated as liability???
4) Parents inherent tendency regarding post death rituals which still is completed by sons.
5) sons are flag bearers of thier so called Lineage??girl child fails to keep her sirname intact??
6) Post marriage girls cant take responsibility of her parents as sons..not because they dont want to but because inlaws family is against..many of them are dependent on their husbands financially..and so on..
I think in our hearts we all girls here on this platform reading my post would feel the reasons to be true though we may not have belief on any of these..but how many of us are taking care of our parents as our husbands do?..if our parents in need how many of us can spare a buck without consulting our family?and leave others how many of us have control on or truely own our money??
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MADHUPARNA DAS Mom of a 5 yr old girl 4 years ago
It doesn't matter
Sai Lakshmi Mom of a 5 yr 7 m old girl 4 years ago
no it doesn't matter at all
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