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Ghar-Ghar ki kahani
One of the most talked about relationship for centuries is of a Saas and a Bahu. We have seen and heard stories of their changing dynamics with time. Do you think does Saas and Bahu relationship is truly that melodramatic? Share your views whether your Saas is ‘Monster-in-law’ or ‘Mother-in-law’!!
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Bidyut Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
my mother in law.is mystery ..I am unable to understand her ..in the beginning she used to love me more than his son..tree days she is a big support to her son ..both won't help me with any matters of my baby ...she jus looks after cleaning home sometimes just because she has to do Pooja ..wen I ask for help frp. my husband to look after baby she will stereotypically support her son by saying it's Man job to work he must be tired how can he help you. it's hard to understand such women when she herself was a working women ...how can she differentiate. ..even I used to work
.I left my career to look after baby and it's going to be 2 years. like I feel so left out. why can't mother in law's understand their daughter in law as they could to their own blood. the bonding never happens ...the moment I think she's good she proves me wrong the next. hence she'll always remain a mystery to me. period.
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sumita Saha Mom of 4 children 6 years ago
Every one has own opinion, own views, so it's totally matter of adjustments, how my mother in law understands me, I follow every words without answer anything, after all she is more elder and experienced than me, we all should respect our mother in law as we all do with mother
Sarika Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
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shifa abdul karim Mom of 5 children 6 years ago
my mother in law is best ..she is good for everything.....but bahu beti nai sakti ..aur saas kavi maa nai sakti .....if u do everything for them ..dis difference is always 10p% geniune ...m I ryt☺
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Nikhar Bnsal Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
"yeh rishta kya kehlata hai " 😄
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Ritu Pasricha Mom of a 7 yr 4 m old girl 6 years ago
In This Case I'm super lucky my mom(mother in law)she is super caring n supporting..she took so much care of my daughter.. my baby love to spent time with her more than me..i think got the best mother in law in the world ...she is amazingly good n she is my mammma♥️
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reshma Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
Mother in law definitely cannot take your mothers place. It's not about finding or having one to replace another. As much as accepting a new person to be your family (your husband), it should be our willingness to accept his mother too. Provided she accepts and respects you too as her new family. She must understand that the daughter in law has had her own upbringing just like how she has brought up her son.
I have been blessed with a wonderful person as my mother in law and she is my first confidant for any complaints. If she wants to open up her mind I am the one for her. I respect her as a human being. So does she.
Am grateful for her.
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Jyoti Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
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Meri sas b monster in low hi h ....pahle to badi muskil se Meri shadi hui h kyuki mare husband chahte thy mujhe se shadi krna ..phr Meri sas Ka mujhe me aur jethani me feel shuru ho gya .Meri ek beti h aur Meri jethani ke 2 beta aur ek beti ..mujhe b pahle beta hua tha uski death ho gyi badi muskil se god me ek beti Di h to koi us se ghr me pyr n krta sirf mare husband krte h aur mare mami papa ke yaha ..Mari sas to din bhr ladka ladka krti h aur jethani ke bacho ki le lekar ghumti h mujhe bahut gussa a ta ..nafrat h mujhe un se ..vo b to Kisi ki beti h ...my sas is big monster .....
Hello , chahe koi kuch bhi kahe beta ya beti May fark karne wali sabse Jyada Aurat hi hoti hai.. Ek aurat hi aurat ki dushman hai..Mujhe 4 mahine Pehle ek pyara sa beta hua hai par mere in laws ki family ne Aisa kabhi nahi chaha ki betA ya beti wo bas chahte they ki baby healthy ho..logo ki soch ko ignore karo aapke Husband to aapke beti se pyar karte hai wo sabse Jyada important hai Baki duniya jo bhi kare..even I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy phir bhi kahungi betiya hamesha parents ka sath deti hai Aur sabse pyari betiya hoti hai..so enjoy each and every moments with your child..love from London
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Charu Agrawal Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
Mother in law can't be mother. Every relationship is different. why we expect mother in-law to be mother. mother is only one on this Earth, one who give us birth, one who nourishes us. No one can take her place.
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Abhimanyu Father of 2 children 6 years ago
vry nice family
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