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Ghar-Ghar ki kahani
One of the most talked about relationship for centuries is of a Saas and a Bahu. We have seen and heard stories of their changing dynamics with time. Do you think does Saas and Bahu relationship is truly that melodramatic? Share your views whether your Saas is ‘Monster-in-law’ or ‘Mother-in-law’!!
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Heena Sharma Mom of a 6 yr 10 m old boy 6 years ago
In reply to Charu Agrawal
Mother in law can't be mother. Every relationship is different. why we expect mother in-law to be mother. mother is only one on this Earth, one who give us birth, one who nourishes us. No one can take her place.
absolutely true'..No one can take space of mother... specially mother in law...
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Asni Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
I the only problem is that we are not ready to understand others feelings. Mother inlaws always have some sort of possessiveness when she feel their son loves other person more. And same with daughter in law she always wants her husband to love her the most. That is major issue. So dear husbands just try to make both of them feel special. Give both of them enough time. I know it is not that easy but unfortunately there is no other option☺️
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Priyanka Aher Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
I m very lucky to have... my mothe-in-law same as my mother..
she is so supportive and caring, she asks me for any suggetion and get encouraged herself being with me.. we lives likes we are friends altogether.
navya Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
i have got mother in law like my mother. she supports me and encourages me in my career growth and gives suggestions to manage work nd family
isha Mom of 4 children 6 years ago
In reply to Bidyut
my mother in law.is mystery ..I am unable to understand her ..in the beginning she used to love me more than his son..tree days she is a big support to her son ..both won't help me with any matters of my baby ...she jus looks after cleaning home sometimes just because she has to do Pooja ..wen I ask for help frp. my husband to look after baby she will stereotypically support her son by saying it's Man job to work he must be tired how can he help you. it's hard to understand such women when she herself was a working women ...how can she differentiate. ..even I used to work
.I left my career to look after baby and it's going to be 2 years. like I feel so left out. why can't mother in law's understand their daughter in law as they could to their own blood. the bonding never happens ...the moment I think she's good she proves me wrong the next. hence she'll always remain a mystery to me. period.
same story... I m fed up of her words
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Pooja Mom of 7 children 6 years ago
I don't believe that they are monsters. at least mine isn't. she's the best one could ever get. we do have our ups and downs. lots of them. but isn't it the same way with our mothers? at times we agree at times we don't. at times we correct them at times they correct us. at times we scold them many-er times they scold us. it's a relationship very simple by nature, corrupted by our thoughts, environment, society, daily soaps.
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ANKITA Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
yes after few yrs cn see sasu is sasu only cant be mother
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Ravi Shruti Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
I have a sweet " mother in law ". Over the years, I have understood that if we try to make them feel their importance in our life and make them feel that we are not going to snatch her son instead her son will be always her's..she will never turn monster..it's her insecurity of loosing her son makes her evil so always be polite and try to understand her since she has gifted you her most precious thing..Try to value her sacrifices .. everything will be good..I had love cum arranged marriage and things are really good when I realised her importance in my life.
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Neetu sharma Mom of 5 children 6 years ago
she is ok. I NVR realised she is backbiting me. may be that is cause of we live far from her. but she NVR shows love for us(me, my baby, husbnd)she is money minded. agr mere baby Ko koi paise deta h to wo usko b Apne paas rkh leti h. and she NVR gives even also 1 RS toy to my baby uski brday pr b nhi......
Neetu sharma Mom of 5 children 6 years ago
she is ok. I NVR realised she is backbiting me. may be that is cause of we live far from her. but she NVR shows love for us(me, my baby, husbnd)she is money minded. agr mere baby Ko koi paise deta h to wo usko b Apne paas rkh leti h. and she NVR gives even also 1 RS toy to my baby uski brday pr b nhi......
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