i feel joint families are blessing in disguise.. your child gets the extra love and affection from them and he understands the values of sharing, relationships and mutual love..
i feel joint families are blessing in disguise.. your child gets the extra love and affection from them and he understands the values of sharing, relationships and mutual love..
mine also same , before baby born they were very nice to me but right after baby born they only came once to see the child later they they don\'t cme at all ,even hus also not even came once.
Before my marriage my husband and my mom-in-law, sister-in-law was tat much affectionate. I thought they will be like tat after marriage. After marriage everything changed. My husband is good . I won't say anything bad abt him. my mom-in-law and sis inlaw can't able to tolerate my husband's care and affection on me. I became pregnant soon. my sis in law don't have kids .She got married before 8 yrs. wen I became pregnant, both in-laws anger turned towards me. they spoiled my husband mind. he just saw baby wen he is born. now my child is 5 months old, not even once my husband came or his family members came. My in-laws are just need money from my husband. but he is not aware of that and trusting his mom and sis words. avoiding me and baby
mine also same , before baby born they were very nice to me but right after baby born they only came once to see the child later they they don't cme at all ,even hus also not even came once.
I think this is very emotional thing for all the woman. Most of us don\'t want to live alone and ignore the parent in-laws \'coz we also have parents. But the problem is the imbalance in our society. Everything is accepted from the daughter in laws and their family as if being a woman and being the parents of daughter is a Sin. parents in-laws as well as husband\'s have to accept the fact that women is not just for doing daily cores and for for taking responsibility of the entire family. She is trying to accept your family with whatever she has. But the demands and expectations of the entire family in ending. Parent in-laws must change their attitude and mindset for the Daughter In-laws. Try to make her family first. Give her space and independence. Let your son and his family live without much interference. Family is like a circle, we all need each other BUT not at the cost of our inner happiness.
I think this is very emotional thing for all the woman. Most of us don't want to live alone and ignore the parent in-laws 'coz we also have parents. But the problem is the imbalance in our society. Everything is accepted from the daughter in laws and their family as if being a woman and being the parents of daughter is a Sin. parents in-laws as well as husband's have to accept the fact that women is not just for doing daily cores and for for taking responsibility of the entire family. She is trying to accept your family with whatever she has. But the demands and expectations of the entire family in ending. Parent in-laws must change their attitude and mindset for the Daughter In-laws. Try to make her family first. Give her space and independence. Let your son and his family live without much interference. Family is like a circle, we all need each other BUT not at the cost of our inner happiness.
it is boon if mother in law is understandable, helpful and humble. if mother in law is not understand the situation and inflexible then it will make trouble. very less girls having a mother in law like their mother. they are very lucky.
it is boon if mother in law is understandable, helpful and humble. if mother in law is not understand the situation and inflexible then it will make trouble. very less girls having a mother in law like their mother. they are very lucky.
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