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As every coin has two sides, nuclear family and joint family each has pros and cons of its own. If in-laws treat their daughter-in-law well, the adjustment becomes easy.... and vice-versa.
Each one of us is right in our perspective and way of thinking. Thus, what you feel is better for you that what others could say.

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khushbu Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

staying with them has more benefits than staying without them. Elders are always ur backbone. Sometimes it's frustrating but the kind of help you get to raise ur child or anything in life is not possible if you stay alone.

Ankisha Expecting Mom due in 5 months 4 years ago

Everything has pros and cons. Same goes with living with in-laws. Having someone elder may help you in household activities as well as learning various aspects of married life.
On other hand you may find them interfering in your each and every decision and imposing their old and sometimes superstitious beliefs over your modern culture.

priyanka vaibhav Jain Mom of 3 children 4 years ago

what's bad in it....i feel it is the most important thing in life....and you are lucky enough if u are living with your family.....so much of support,love,care,fights......there is so much happening around you....... otherwise there will b no spark in your life.......

priyanka vaibhav Jain Mom of 3 children 4 years ago

the most important thing what I feel is....try to see the good in people....u will always be happy.....u will like everything around u....if u try to adjust ....things wil always work out in ur favour.....

Mia Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

very true, but life becomes easier when the in-laws understand the need of privacy and space in the marriage of their children and put in efforts to give freedom and chance to be open in sharing views in the family.

Sadiya ghufran siddiqui Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

yeah very true

Nikhilesh shirsale Father of a 4 yr 6 m old boy 4 years ago

true i agree

Tanu John Mom of a 7 yr 11 m old girl 4 years ago

Its difficult to say, staying and not staying both have its Pros and Cons... from my own experience i have noticed that you got married your wife and kid are your responsibilty. Staying away from in laws does not mean cutting them out, you can always visit from time to time, weekends or vacations. this way kids look forward to meeting the grandparents. it actually a vacation then...
Wives who have just moved out of the comfort of their own home are expected to change over night. why? they are individuals and have their right to freedom and own space and if their husbands dont provide the same then who will. MILs have their husbands to take thier side they expect their sons to do the same.. who should the wives go to...?

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