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Challenges after Delivery

shubhangi chandrakant patil Mom of 2 children 3 years ago
my biggest challenge is my frustration how other women n this society treats mom's . unable to sleep all night still have to wake up n cook n manage house. still getting calls from in laws whether I m cooking or not . getting taunted by other ladies to how to manage house n baby n how gud they did . I m just frustrated cause I can't do any house work I don't have any help my husband log in at 8 in morning n log out at 9 at night how am I supposed to other work forget rest .
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Jay 4 years ago
It itself a challenging process throughout with the best result
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kavitha. b Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
after becoming mother I was changed myself with huge . which I am not experienced never before. I can feel like myself as a scientist, doctor, child, mother, teacher. it's like all-rounder. same time it's not that much easier to handle with mood swings .but I experienced great thing in this so happy to be a mom 😊
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Community User 3 years ago
Hey new mom's. hope you all are doing well and let's all hang in there. the better days will come .
post portam depression is a real thing and is very common is something I came to realise once I delivered by baby girl .
I was so paranoid all the time . felt like I am the worst mother which in turn effected my health and also effected me taking care of my baby.
where i could enjoy the amazing moments with her I just was getting worried and irritated.
But seek help .. it makes you stronger not week. when I started asking for help and received it i felt my burdan reduced drastically, took care of my health and started enjoying the moments.
it still gets tough sometimes , but have started dividing some work to my mom and husband.
Punam Chettri Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
The first challenge was feeding a hungry baby n breastmilk dosent come.....heart breaks
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Varsha P Mom of a 4 yr 4 m old girl 3 years ago
It brings a lot of stress during this time, plus sleep deprivation. it's important to have support during this time. Househelp is mandatory required. Being a working women, I often feel guilty that I'm not able to give my full time for my baby. I am working from home, but working effectively with less sleep is really difficult. It took months to find a baby sitter which made it even more stressful
Niroopa Mom of a 3 yr 10 m old girl 3 years ago
In reply to Lisa
It feels really inspiring to read about challenges other moms have faced during the post partum period. I am the mother of a 3-months-old baby boy. My delivery experience was horrible as after almost 24 hours of contractions trying for normal delivery, I went for caeserian. After delivery, I traveled home for just a couple of months but came back last month as I was missing my hubby and he was missing both of us. Since then it has been extremely challenging, with me trying to manage my baby's every need and also my own health as I am still suffering from back pain n headaches.
Reading these posts have given me hope. That there are more like me n these days shall pass. Please like if you loved what I shared. Keep more coming!
later days these are all sweet memories to keep life long
HEENA Mom of 2 children 3 years ago
In reply to Lisa
It feels really inspiring to read about challenges other moms have faced during the post partum period. I am the mother of a 3-months-old baby boy. My delivery experience was horrible as after almost 24 hours of contractions trying for normal delivery, I went for caeserian. After delivery, I traveled home for just a couple of months but came back last month as I was missing my hubby and he was missing both of us. Since then it has been extremely challenging, with me trying to manage my baby's every need and also my own health as I am still suffering from back pain n headaches.
Reading these posts have given me hope. That there are more like me n these days shall pass. Please like if you loved what I shared. Keep more coming!
I m also suffering from severe back ache.
Lisa Mom of 3 children 6 years ago
It feels really inspiring to read about challenges other moms have faced during the post partum period. I am the mother of a 3-months-old baby boy. My delivery experience was horrible as after almost 24 hours of contractions trying for normal delivery, I went for caeserian. After delivery, I traveled home for just a couple of months but came back last month as I was missing my hubby and he was missing both of us. Since then it has been extremely challenging, with me trying to manage my baby's every need and also my own health as I am still suffering from back pain n headaches.
Reading these posts have given me hope. That there are more like me n these days shall pass. Please like if you loved what I shared. Keep more coming!
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Deepika Diwan Mom of 2 children 3 years ago
Same here , Now weight is a problem for me
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