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Challenges after Delivery

SHWETA A Mom of a 2 yr 7 m old girl 1 Year ago
i thought the delivery was the tough part.but growing a baby is far difficult then that.i had no idea how to take care of my baby and no one is around to guide,and the one who taught me everything is my baby.it feels like i am not the one who gave her birth rather she has given me the second birth in a single life.
#my baby ,my inspiration towards life
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Pavani Mom of a 8 m old boy 5 months ago
After my mom death I got convinced, and pregnancy gone well, after 37 weeks raised my bp got admitted gotC-sec ,I faced a lot issues like latching, expressing milk, pumping,low appetite , anxiety, sleepless nights,I’m facing insomnia due to that, day time I’m sleeping not able concentrate kitchen chores. Mil is didn’t helped she also tell mothers have tc when newborn arrives like that and I’m alone with husband raising boy baby.
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Community User 6 months ago
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first challenge was breast feeding.it was my first baby.so i really dont know how to do it.i struggled for an week. relatives gave me so many instruction that made me really confused.then my baby had to admitted in nicu because of jaundice.there i got proper learning about breast feeding.
next challenge was low breastmilk .baby is hungry and you are unable to feed was the worst feeling ever.i felt guilty.i felt pain.and i had to hear taunts of my own people.
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Akshata Mom of a 5 m old boy 4 months ago
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after reading all of mom's experiences, I thought to share my motherhood journey at my first delivery everything went normal, bt same issues low breast milk, missing our beloved and sm hw looking at my sons face spent days he's 2 years nw, bt recently I gt delivered my second baby and she's 3 months old nw, as I am staying with my in laws its really difficult to manage both the kids my health, no parents support, hesitate to take help frm in-laws, they tc meanwhile taunt everywhere and i hv to listen wt ever they if there's no mistake of mine and started doing works early than to rest(I dono if it would cause any problem in future doing house work early than taking rest).
I really feel bad for you dear mommy... I think you need to talk with your husband and your parents.. I feel how much rest we do, recovery will also be in good condition.
even I had a same problem during my pregnancy. My in law used to taunt a lot. But ignoring is the best solution. and please do talk to your Gynochologist, explain your condition at home and about health. she/he may help you to get some rest N make your spouse and in laws to understand your health.
mom Guardian of a 7 m old girl 5 months ago
after reading all of mom's experiences, I thought to share my motherhood journey at my first delivery everything went normal, bt same issues low breast milk, missing our beloved and sm hw looking at my sons face spent days he's 2 years nw, bt recently I gt delivered my second baby and she's 3 months old nw, as I am staying with my in laws its really difficult to manage both the kids my health, no parents support, hesitate to take help frm in-laws, they tc meanwhile taunt everywhere and i hv to listen wt ever they if there's no mistake of mine and started doing works early than to rest(I dono if it would cause any problem in future doing house work early than taking rest).
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Anisha Rani Mom of a 6 m old girl 4 months ago
everyday we face new challanges .whole nights or day go without sleep .when baby have any problem lyk gas problem ,cold cough etc .i find solutions and solve it byself.when she nvr take milk find to feed her tricks .giving bath to little one is very challenging .save her from mosquito and other insects is als chalenging bcoj whole time we cant keep her in mosquito net .sometime at night when she nvr sleep even in her sweddle it was als chllenging .i sing song for her take her in my arms and walk .then she sleeps.so many things hppn which are challenging
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teena Mom of a 8 m old girl 5 months ago
after the delivery life change, whole focus change from family to baby
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TDKLakshmi Prakash Mom of 3 children 5 months ago
heavy hair fall causes depression otherwise enjoying child's growing phase
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Pooja S 5 months ago
Nice
Pooja S 5 months ago
Nice information
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