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Challenges after Delivery

Giving birth is a unique experience as it marks the start of motherhood. After the delivery of your baby,you are accompanied by many challenges physically,emotionally & financially. The postpartum period can be quite difficult.Dear Moms, share with us the challenges you faced after having a baby.

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Veena Neware Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Ruchita

my baby girl is 7 weeks old. i have severe pain while pooping. in this covid scenario we have not been able to consult doctor also. not able to understand is it fissure or piles. it's been 3 weeks now. really worried how will this problem go away.
but yes, looking at the baby girl makes things better :)

piles generally happend with bleeding.... eat papaya in breakfast u will definitely get relief i was faced same problem...daal roti patli patli .... mung daal...drink coconut water and take laxative syrup for normal stool do it for 1 to 2week u will get relief

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Veena Neware Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Megha Birelly

I had a normal delivery on 27th aug, now i am suffering from pain in vaginal stitches, unable to sit or walk

but stiches get recover maximum in 1.5months please go to gynecologist

Veena Neware Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Surabhi Talwar

This was my first pregnancy. And I was eagerly waiting for my daughter. I am a Nephrologist and was very naive. I thought that like most of the mothers in my family, I will go back to work after she is 3 months old. I had to work hard for my job and did not want to take much leave. Hence I was working daily even in the last trimester and ultimately went for my delivery from my workplace directly. As soon as I saw my daughter, my life has changed. There were many challenges and I had lots of help to get through it. The first problem was breast feeding- there were issues with latching and I had painful engorgement. After this u had severe pain at episiotomy site and could not sit properly for a month after delivery. This was followed by recurrent anal bleeding due to piles and multiple fissures. But all through this my baby was the reason u could see the light at the end of the tunnel. However, my life went crazy when my little one developed ear infection and I saw pus coming out of her ears. The pediatrician felt it maybe because of the position I was holding my child in- while breast feeding her. I kept blaming myself for days. I kept thinking about how I had missed the fact that she must have had ear pain, how I should have picked that up as a mother and taken her to the Pediatrician earlier. All this stress suppressed my milk production. I was spiralling. Then somehow with my husbands support I got better. Through all this whenever I looked at my baby, all my pain would go away. Today she is 4 and a half months old and I still have anal bleeding due to hemorrhoids and fissure. But all that pain is much less than the pain that I feel when I think about leaving her at home and re joining work in June, especially in this covid era.

ma'am try to eat papaya at breakfast it really works i had same problem and it was so severe that even painkiller had not worked... drink plenty of water coconut water.... n take more daal roti for few days....

Veena Neware Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

i got ankel fracture in 9th month and after 15days i had normal delivery while giving birth i had a retain placenta which was taken out manually and that was the painest part after that i had suffered from fissure and it was so painfull that 24hour pain i was scared when i felt to poop.i was felt scary to eat anything.i was last for 21 days due to which i was failed to feed properly because of low breast milk and finally my baby had to give FM milk :( and i still feel bad for that

smitha Rani Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

the sweet smile of my baby is the motivation to overcome every challenge that I face. Every day is different, but we as a family support in every way always... now working on getting back to my normal weight &form

Rin Mom of 5 children 5 years ago

Despite all the stress and sleepless night I have become so mature and selfless that i never thought i would be. My baby comes first in everything and my only aim right now is to do what's good for my baby and make her life as perfect as it can be so she never live a life i lived she deserve everything.

Varsha Bagri Mom of a 5 yr 5 m old girl 5 years ago

In reply to Ranjana Pandey

😭yes actually i did the same but he says come as soon as possible after going to home.

huhh... so that they can torture you again 😒😤
by the way hows your baby then?

Ranjana Pandey Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

In reply to Varsha Bagri

sad... but why did you live with them on that spot of time, then why didn't you go your home and live with your parents.

😭yes actually i did the same but he says come as soon as possible after going to home.

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Varsha Bagri Mom of a 5 yr 5 m old girl 5 years ago

In reply to Ranjana Pandey

due to the unsupportive family i got 102 fever due to the reason i am not feeling well tiĺl 4 month 😞

sad... but why did you live with them on that spot of time, then why didn't you go your home and live with your parents.

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Ranjana Pandey Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

due to the unsupportive family i got 102 fever due to the reason i am not feeling well tiĺl 4 month 😞

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