Discussion about Challenges after Delivery

lakshmi brahma Mom of a 1 yr 7 m old girl 10 months ago

Never thought being a new mother will be a total change in my life . when you are being said cnt you make her quite? What kind of mother are you don't anything how to carry,feed,etc it's hurts because we try our best to be a good mother. No one's try to understand your mentally, emotionally condition they just see u as a mother of a child and we being a mother we don't leave any stones unturned. Only happiness you get when you see ur baby smiling at you with no complains.
Now I have a best friend that's my daughter as we also share our birthday 😊.

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SHWETA A Mom of a 2 yr 11 m old girl 1 Year ago

i thought the delivery was the tough part.but growing a baby is far difficult then that.i had no idea how to take care of my baby and no one is around to guide,and the one who taught me everything is my baby.it feels like i am not the one who gave her birth rather she has given me the second birth in a single life.
#my baby ,my inspiration towards life

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Shikha Chauhan Mom of a 6 m old boy 1 week ago

Mother go through with many ups and downs but most challenging for me to calm down myself from dialogue by others after my mistake starts with the only sentence “now you are a mother of a child☹️”

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Varsha P Mom of a 11 m old girl 2 months ago

In reply to shubhangi chandrakant patil

my biggest challenge is my frustration how other women n this society treats mom's . unable to sleep all night still have to wake up n cook n manage house. still getting calls from in laws whether I m cooking or not . getting taunted by other ladies to how to manage house n baby n how gud they did . I m just frustrated cause I can't do any house work I don't have any help my husband log in at 8 in morning n log out at 9 at night how am I supposed to other work forget rest .

It's true that other women in the society judge new mother's on their upbringing style and say things like mom doesn't feed her well etc. It's really annoying to hear this from another women who has already been through this and that the fact they all know that mom loves the baby the most.

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Shweta Mom of a 1 yr 7 m old girl 1 Year ago

In reply to Divya Yadav

I didn't get a single day rest after c-section delivery. I had to look after my baby alone as my mother in law was keeping herself busy in kitchen. I was not getting proper and timely diet. As they wanted to harass me in every possible way wether mentally or physically. I used to cry when my husband was leaving for the office. As it was my first baby so I knew nothing about baby care n all. Till now I am going through this but can proudly say I bought up my child on my own. 😎

It sounds like my story...
How are you now??

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shubhangi chandrakant patil Mom of a 1 yr 4 m old girl 3 months ago

In reply to DrSunetra Sharma

for me, I didn't get support from my in laws, always they were like I am unable to take care of my baby n always in a scolding attitude....but my husband was always there for me in my every decision so they could not overpower me. moreover l would like to mention the role of my mother, whom we, daughters always forget to give a mention thinking that it's their duty to be with us.sheis always there with me in my all needs n deeds...so staying at in law's house was a big challenge to me apart from all other challenges we new moms face

same for me . my in laws never sa anything in scolding manner but they were never intrested in our daughter . my mom n dad did everything including my delivery n one year they raised my daughter but my in laws never even video called us to see her only sweet talking but when we need them they are always absent n if my baby is sick or I m sick my dad is always there . I don't understand my sister in laws son is cherished like prince while my in laws ignore the fact that my daughter is present too.

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DrSunetra Sharma Mom of a 1 yr old girl 4 months ago

for me, I didn't get support from my in laws, always they were like I am unable to take care of my baby n always in a scolding attitude....but my husband was always there for me in my every decision so they could not overpower me. moreover l would like to mention the role of my mother, whom we, daughters always forget to give a mention thinking that it's their duty to be with us.sheis always there with me in my all needs n deeds...so staying at in law's house was a big challenge to me apart from all other challenges we new moms face

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shubhangi chandrakant patil Mom of a 1 yr 4 m old girl 3 months ago

my biggest challenge is my frustration how other women n this society treats mom's . unable to sleep all night still have to wake up n cook n manage house. still getting calls from in laws whether I m cooking or not . getting taunted by other ladies to how to manage house n baby n how gud they did . I m just frustrated cause I can't do any house work I don't have any help my husband log in at 8 in morning n log out at 9 at night how am I supposed to other work forget rest .

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Jay 11 months ago

It itself a challenging process throughout with the best result

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kavitha. b Mom of a 3 yr 1 m old boy 1 Year ago

after becoming mother I was changed myself with huge . which I am not experienced never before. I can feel like myself as a scientist, doctor, child, mother, teacher. it's like all-rounder. same time it's not that much easier to handle with mood swings .but I experienced great thing in this so happy to be a mom 😊

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