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Two persons with completely different lifestyles are being tied up in arrange marriage. Though some hurdles arise in both love and arranged marriages, arranged marriages are better in my point of view. Since more people are involved in an arranged marriage, conflicts between the couple will be effectively mitigated. Moreover, an individual’s thoughts and space will become wider. It will be wonderful to surround yourself with lots of new relationships in a completely new atmosphere. The couple’s children will get more blessings from elders in their family which is an added advantage. Children enjoy their vacations in their grandparents’ homes. They learn about their ancestors and their habits which pave the way for a well matured and loving future. In an arranged marriage, culture will be retained. This gets priority because each and every ritual and custom are performed only for the well-being of the couple and their children. In case of an emergency financial risk, the couple will be assisted by many people. Since we need the entire family to be connected in an arranged marriage, the couple will have to adjust to more and more new characters. This makes them develop a compromising capacity within themselves. Some of the life partners will be more caring, some will be highly determined, some will be egoistic. But whatever he/she might be, traveling throughout life (nearly 50 years) is not an easy job. When we turn all adversities into challenges life will become more and more interesting. Instead of blaming each other for weakness, try to appreciate his/her notable good points and also make him/her shine in their career. Start encouraging his/her talents. Sex alone is not the prime importance in life. There are many things to be explored and appreciated. On the whole, love after marriage is a beautiful challenge to understand his/her life partner and travel throughout their life journey.
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