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Mom of a 1 m old child8 months ago
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second pregnancy. my first born throws tantrums etc etc why i feel so annoyed angry i shout and also cry at same time as its not in my control. why is it happening? and any solution to overcome this

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Rishika GulatiMom of a 3 yr 5 m old child1 week ago

A. What you are feeling right now is real, and it does not make you a bad mother. It makes you an exhausted one. Growing a baby while raising a toddler is one of the hardest combinations there is. Your body is tired, your hormones are loud, and your toddler is still demanding. Of course you feel angry and cry. That is a full plate, not a failure. Please don't carry this alone. Hand the toddler to your husband or family for an hour each day and rest without guilt. Lower your standards for everything that is not safety - meals, screen time, a messy house. Survival mode is allowed. With your first born, connection over correction. Ten minutes of sitting with him, playing what he wants, fills his cup so the tantrums reduce. And be kind to yourself after you shout. Repair it. 'Mumma got angry. I am sorry. I love you.' That repair teaches him more than perfection ever will. You are doing enough.

JavikGuardian of a 1 yr 3 m old boy8 months ago

A. husband ke sath kush time ke lye bahr kahi gumne jao

profile image of Sai Prasanthi R LSai Prasanthi R LMom of a 12 yr 6 m old boy8 months ago

A. Hello! You are too stressed out at the moment. You need to take some time out for yourself and then sort it out. Try Yoga and Meditation for better physical and mental health. It is important to maintain a very good positive surrounding for yourself and definitely for your elder child .

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