Q. Hello friends and doctors,
I have a 10 month old baby. She seems more attatched to her grandma than me. Today i with my husband and my mil and baby went to a temple. There my baby did one thing which made me very sad. We- my husband and my baby were sitting in the temple compound. My mil was passing by that area some far distance (between 8-10 meters) . My baby was with me playing. She noticed her and put forward her hands and started to make big sound looking her grandma. She didnt calm until mil came and took her. But she doesnot do the same or react on seeing her mother. Y is it so. I am the one who is taking care of her the whole day. Then too y is she doing so? Why is she not developing a relation with her mother?

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Q. Hello friends and doctors, 
   I have a 10 month old baby. She seems more attatched to her grandma than me.  Today i with my husband and my mil and baby went to a temple.  There my baby did one thing which made me very sad.  We- my husband and my baby were sitting in the temple compound.  My mil was passing by that area some far distance (between 8-10 meters) . My baby was with me playing.  She noticed her and put forward her hands and started to make big sound looking her grandma.  She didnt  calm until mil came and took her.  But she doesnot do the same or react on seeing her mother.  Y is it so. I am the one who is taking care of her the whole day. Then too y is she doing so? Why is she not developing a relation with her mother?

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exactly same problem with me my baby boy is 7 months complete but when he see his grandma or chachu his so happy but when he see me he has no reaction. almost when he see me hee started crying evrytime not happy

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same prblm I faced... thanks for the precious advice...i

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Don't worry mama. Mother child relation is a magic. You cannot visualise it until you feel the connection. I think you have convinced yourself that your baby is attached to ur mil and not you. But that is not the case. 
The bond between a grandchild and grandparents is totally different from mom and child relationship. That love is different and this love is totally different. A child needs both these relationships. And you should also realise that mom child bond is more intimate than any other relation. 
You cannot sense it as u are always with the baby and thats why ur baby is also not excited when she sees u as she knows mama will be always near and there for her. That doesn't mean you have to stay away from her. 
You have to only realise this truth and don't try to compare your precious bond with other relations of ur child. Trust me your child loves u the most, so do will every child. There is nothing more than a mother's love and a child's love towards her mother.

Don't confuse yourself. stay calm mama. Keep enjoying your moments with her.