my son is 4.5 yr old but he is not potty trained yet. He crosses his legs while doing poop. we try very hard to get him in the wash room. But he never sits on the pot.He tells that he feels pain while doing poop

A. hello try showing some video which can help but if the child is having any pain then it would be better to once check with your doctor to make sure everything is a normal and she will be able to guide you better on examination of the same and advise you accordingly