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Mom of a 8 yr 10 m old girl7 years ago
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My MIL keeps comparing my daughter with my cosister son, I have started to resent my entire husband family because of this. she keeps questioning my parenting style and my abilities as mother where as continuously praising my cosister. I am full of anger, hurt and resentment. please help me.

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profile image of SumitaSumitaMom of a 10 yr 10 m old boy7 years ago

A. every mom tries too hard to do the best for their kids in their own way. sometimes it's what we learn or have seen from elders and many times our own judgement as we know our kids better. what worked during our parents or grandparents time will not work with kids of current generation. Internet has alot to offer.. so use combinations of their knowledge and what you know scientifically.. in laws will always try to prove their parenting style is always better.. try explaining.. if not ignore.. and you can calm down by doing something you like the most.. for me.. I first talk it out to my husband and then listen to music and even mantras help.. trust me you can't change their mind set always.. just let go..

profile image of s madaans madaanMom of a 10 yr 4 m old girl7 years ago

A. why you give an year to it I personally believe that we must not look forward for the negative things it happens in my family too and my mother in law is always against my daughter she always tells other scared to be much more reactive than her and when others who said she is comparing they meet my daughter this is keep on praising that they killed their kid could not achieve what makes your today so it's completely up to you you should have confidence in yourself I never let my daughter feel that I are my husband don't love her to hell with the others or to hell with the in laws like this

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