my kid is 2.5 yr old. she does not tell when she wants to pee. she pees everywhere in the house. it's not that she does not know that she wants to pee. but she does not get up and go and pee. she knows she wants to pee. she stands lift her dressand pee there itself. we have told her with love.. we tried to tell her with fear. scared her. but still she is being naughty and peeing everywhere. how should I stop this