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Mom of a 8 yr 2 m old girl6 years ago
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my husband is not happy with the food I cook. he becomes angry if the food is not tasty. I live with my mother in law and father in law.i am in a 9 to 4 job. In the morning I cook for breakfast and lunch. then I go to office. after coming back I take care of my baby .then I cook for dinner.no one helps me in cooking as my mother in law is paralysed. my husband doesn't have job.since last 4 months he is not happy with my cooking. yesterday I asked him why he is very angry for the food I cook. he becomes angry and scolds my parents too.and said how dare you not cook tasty food and arguing with me.call your parents to send 10 servants for you. then he press my chick very hardly and said I will kill you . your parents will not able to save you. Then I became afraid and hold my baby to run out of the house. then my husband run behind me and caught me and call his father and said don't let her go out of the house.i cried loudly . my baby became very afraid and she cried too loudly then my husband shut my mouth so that the neighbor would not hear me.but somehow I manage to ran out. then I make my baby calm and after half an hour I returned home. can any one tell me who is wrong I or my husband? I don't want to live with my husband anymore.i want to give him divorce.is my decision correct? my husband loves our baby very much.what should I do.

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Sudha NanjaiahGuardian of a 7 yr 5 m old boy5 years ago

A. When men don’t have job they get frustrated and act like this however that does not mean he should be talking to you this way . It is better to go to your parents house for sometime until he calms down. Your parents should know what is going on. Take care dear.

profile image of Sowmya MSowmya MMom of a 12 yr 1 m old girl6 years ago

A. hi actually the behaviour matters alot and at this time no one is wrong except the situations so give a space go to your parents home take elders support think calm don make a mess or talk to your husband politely with love once if not take elders help

profile image of s madaans madaanMom of a 10 yr 2 m old girl6 years ago

A. What kind of demonstration your in laws and family are showing to words the baby your in-laws and your husband or not at all supportive to you it will be good if you leave the house because you are also learning so you have the independence to leave the house and you can take care of your baby the problem is with the mentality of the house

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