my daughter is 3 years and 4 months old. if I give her apple cut into pieces to eat my husband fights with me. he says grate the apple and warm it then feed her.also he doesn't let my daughter eat rice and roti by chewing. he says mash rice then feed her, roti with sabji mash perfectly so that she will not chew and just take it inside. if I oppose he fights with me. what should I do. according to him he is the guardian of the house and he will decide everything.